Not everyones pregnancy or experience is the same somepeople have more complications then others if Someone is not asking for advice sometimes I think it's just best to say I hope you have a good day. Or maybe not say anything at all
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@ilovecharlie310, I did comment on that post but it was just to show that all obgyn do it different and that’s ok and I was always excited for my appointment and the more the better at least for me
@sarab.estrada if your not blocked you were not rude <3 you were one of the people who actually did not come off rude and i truly believe its because you were not trying to be your comment was fine <3 anyone who commented on that and was rude i blocked you were nice <3
First of all i am at an obgyn a really good one in santa monica so how they gunna tell me i need to go to an obgyn lol i had to go to a specialist thats great for woman who dont have to but not everyones pregnancy is the same and they turned a happy post into a whole extra thing like god damnnnn and the woman who commented dont even live in my state ... lol not all places are small towns where everything is all in once office and somepeople need to go to specialists for somethings
@divinely_favored 5 now u get it ? Thank you yes it was not with good intentions they just were being stupid extra to get there 2 cents in there when they had no idea my situation at all and they were talking like they knew
@divinely_favored and again i was not asking for anyones advice i jist posted a cute selfie and said yayy im excited for the doctors i never liked the doctors untill i was pregnant then they all poped up saying all that shit
Did they specifically say they aren't asking for advice? If not, how are we supposed to know? I did not comment on said post but there was another one similar just last night. If there is a post be it a photo or statement or meme or rant posting on a public forum is going to bring comments. It'd be so much easier if people just said what they were looking for or disabled the comments. If you don't how will people know?
Then they started saying i need to go to an obgyn and that they should have done it all at once and blah blah and i am like omg u dont even know i had to go to a specialist for the first ultrasound bc my family has a history of small babies and they needed to be sure for far along i was i also have 2 big ovarian cysts they might have to remove so i also have to go to a specialist for that like i said not everyone's pregnancy is the same and alllllllll i said was i was excited for my doctors visit and like 4 different woman said a mix of different just unnecessary things not everyones pregnancy is the same and alllll i said was i was excited for my appointment with a selfie it was just a little extra of everyone and thats why i deleted the post it was a happy post turned into a whole damn debate
@ilovecharlie310 I can understand being frustrated. I also know that most of the time questions and responses and advice come out of genuine concern.
If someone posts a pic but there is something dangerous going on in the pic like a baby strung up in xmas lights its only natural for people to comment on the alarming situation.
I think sometimes good intentions come off negatively and sometimes people can be really nasty but in general I think most of us just have an inate desire to try to help even if its not asked for. That can be annoying but I just take what applies and leave what doesn't. You didn't ask for my opinion but I felt it might help you feel better so I gave it.
@divinely_favored u did not even see the post it was not friendly healthy advice lol it was 100% unnecessary and there was nothing for anyone to be alarmed about
@ilovecharlie310, this is a public forum, you’ll get opinions you won’t really like I’m sure. That’s just the way it is. It seemed to me that people were just curious as to why they didn’t just do all those things for you in one visit. Because that’s how it normally is.
There was nothing negative on your post. Usually the Dr will do all of the things they've spread out in one visit.
You can always disable comments on your posts if you don't want any comments. 🙂
I agree