Can I have everyone’s opinions on me being 5cm dilated 50% effaced my cervix is high but the baby’s head is there and I…
Can I have everyone’s opinions on me being 5cm dilated 50% effaced my cervix is high but the baby’s head is there and I wasn’t sent to labor and delivery. My mom is taking me cause she thinks it wasn’t right that my dr didn’t send me over to the hospital so she wants me looked at again. I THINK my dr stripped my membrane but I’m not sure(I say I’m not sure cause she says things and then I’m not sure what she meant she did or didn’t do and I don’t ask but she said “let’s see if we can change that for you” when I told her I’m just tired and in pain all the time)
Melinda Westad·
If your water hasn’t broken and you’re not having contractions then that’s probably why they didn’t send you to the hospital. If it were me I’d rather labor at home.
M. P. ··
I’m home alone with my son every day so I rather not lol
Amy O.·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Hmm that’s weird. It would have made sense if she said go home, but to get prepped for going to L&D if your cramps pick up or your water breaks. I could see her wanting you to relax at home as long as possible, but if she didn’t even mention anything then IDK. Maybe she gave instructions for the nurses to pass on to you? That’s happened to me before 😂, but I always got a heads up.
Good luck! I hope they admit you and baby comes soon.
M. P. ··
My water didn’t break on its own with my son. I kind of have a feeling it won’t this time either. She came in and broke it when I was 5cm with my son and I was stuck there for 2 hours lol
Amy O.··
Мама двоих (младенец)
@bubbys.mommy, well hopefully they let you progress a bit more before breaking it! Every delivery is different so I hope you have a different experience.
M. P. ·
Why wouldn’t my dr send me over to the hospital then?
M. P. ··
@thawkins, walk walk walk!!
❤️··
@bubbys.mommy, I took my work kids on a hike this weekend and everything! Trying all the natural stuff. 😩
Heather··
@bubbys.mommy, no! It absolutely makes no sense to me. You are at risk for infection being this dilated
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Around here all hospitals admit you at 4-5cm. I would definitely listen to your mom.
M. P. ··
Yeah we’re gonna go.
BakingDaddy ·
It's a good idea to get checked. They may admit you and have you walking laps. Good luck! It does kind of sound like she did a sweep, but I feel like that's something she should've asked you if you wanted.
M. P. ··
I definitely wanted it but yeah I feel like she would have asked or something. Idk..I’m kind of at a loss cause I feel like I don’t need to go but now complete strangers are telling me it’s a good idea...
Heather·
My hospital would admit you so it’s a good idea to go get checked
M. P. ··
😭😭😭
PotTmouthed&StirredUp👊·
Some hospitals keep u others won't which I think is crazy!!! That's half way done!
M. P. ··
My mom was saying they won’t give me an epidural once I hit 7cm too and she doesn’t want me to miss getting one just because of this...my dr said also “I’m not saying anything will happen now but it could”
PotTmouthed&StirredUp👊·
No contractions?
PotTmouthed&StirredUp👊··
@bubbys.mommy sounds like its time :)
M. P. ··
@pottmouthed_stirredup, it just feels weird that I don’t feel anything happening except what I told you and it’s not even big or a lot or anything. Girl idk what I’m doing lol
PotTmouthed&StirredUp👊··
@bubbys.mommy I felt the same way. And I just ignored it.could b labor could not be labor but do u wanna deliver at home if it is