Lately ive been feeling like such a failure to my son. Lately hes been having bad tantrums and he…
Lately ive been feeling like such a failure to my son. Lately hes been having bad tantrums and he hits me and tries to break my glasses. I dont know why he does this maybe the molars hes got coming in are painful maybe hes just angry but its making me feel that our strong bond is slowly breaking apart and i want to do is cry and ask why? I get frustrated mostly from the lack of sleep im getting since hes not sleeping well either but i feel like im failing and its hurting my heart to think mu own child might actually hate me😭.
Michelle ·
Мама сына (1 год)
He doesn’t hate you. My son went through a phase like this before a year and after a year. When it happened when he was younger I associated with gas pains, later it was teething. Kids always act the worst with the ones that they love the most. They know mom will love them always even if they are acting out. They just don’t know how to tell us any other way at this age that they are in pain. My son broke 2 pairs of my glasses and ripped a bunch of my hair out when he was at his worst. When he would do it, I would tell him as calmly as possible “No, we don’t hit people, gentle touches.” And then on his face I would gently stroke his cheek. It’s not perfect now and sometimes we still revert back, but now when I say gentle touches he will stroke our checks and I say “Yes, that’s how we touch eachother” Good job! Also, when he would hit me I would put him down on the floor, or if really bad I would put him in his play pen for a short period to let him know it’s not ok to hit.
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Girl sounds normal ... toddlers are like that that’s why u have to start disciplining them now so it doesn’t get out of control when they get older my son does the same thing he’s a year old but I corrected every time to let him know That is not acceptable he loves you he’s just a toddler and doing toddler things