Have you ever considered having a 3 some while in your relationship? What gender would the person be? Would you do it just because your spouse wanted to?
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No but we were offer a foursome on the trails where we were walking our dogs. Guy said to me while he was with his girlfriend that my husband was good looking and if we were interested in a foursome. We said no and walked very fast and we heard the girlfriend yelling at him for saying it.
This is an interesting topic. I always wondered what threesomes meant. Does it mean I'm not satisfied sexually with my partner and I would like to experience other people? Or does it mean I'm satisfied but I still have urges to have sex with other people in addition to my spouse? Any thoughts?
I've said no plenty of times, Reasons being 1. I wouldn't want to share I don't like sharing (even though he said the girl and I could do things and he'd only touch me it's still a no.) 2.What if myself or he caught feelings? It'd just mess everything up and it's not worth it. 3 He could want to do it more times than just 1-2 and I like when we have sex it's just us and that's our time I don't want someone else runining it.
I've considered maybe another couple but then decided that's also a NO because all of the above could still happen.
My SO asked his friend (a man) if he wanted to have 3some with us but I turned it down right away and just recently he has a new friend who apparently is open to swinging with his wife. I turned that down too. It's just not for me and it can cause a lot of problems
I'm not and if he asked I feel he wants someone else he can go somewhere else.
@pamelawife134 to me its cheating. Well not cheating .but I wouldn't allow.him to cheat without me there so how can I give him permission just cause I'm around. Kinda selfish u can't sleep w no one unless I'm involved. Naw if u want someone else I'm not who u want so bye
I think only do it if you want to and with the sex you both agree on. You should both come to an agreement. I feel in a 3 sum there is just no compromise.
@pamelawife134, like if you aren’t comfortable with it at all and only or doing it for your SO. Or if you only want to bring a woman into it then don’t settle and bring a man into it.
I’m all for compromising in a marriage but I think compromising in any sexual way will bring more harm then good. You should both agree and want to try the same thing before you do it.
Definitely not just because he wanted to. That leads to nothing but problems. But we have had 3somes before. Both of us wanted to & we literally had talks about boundaries when doing so. I’d ONLY do it with another woman, neither of us are interested in another guy.
@pamelawife134, basically lol. Just something new to have fun with. && because I’d be disgusted with myself & I have no desire to have two dicks touching me at once. Two dudes & a girl I feel like happens when it’s two bros & some random hoe. Most dudes don’t usually wanna see another man fuck their wife lol.
So you would do it if it was soneone you wanted to be with? But being poly wouldn't really mean it was a 3some, right? It would just be you yall having sex. You both have to have mutual feelings for the person you decide to date, right? You're more into women, so would you guys ever choose a man?
I personally just don't care for men 🤷
I have to know them for quite a while before I develop feelings.
And yes. Polyamory is more for relationship then just sex. So I guess my opinion might be a little different.
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You know what’s weird. My husband has never asked me but it has came up in the conversation and he said he’s thought of it and would only get pleasure to see a female pleasuring me. I personally think I wouldn’t do it? Lol I’m not into girls at all but maybe? Just cause I know he’d be into it 🙄
@pamelawife134, I told him I would do it lol he knows I’ve been intimate with a woman once that’s how it came up
It’s personally not for me, but I don’t judge anyone who decides too. and I wouldn’t do it just because my husband asked I feel like that would just lead too a lot of problems in a relationship, that should be something you’re both comfortable with. but thankfully we are on the same page so I don’t have to worry about that 😂
I wouldn't do it just because he asks. That'll lead to alot of resentment.
I'm more into females so mine would be with a female. And we're actually Polyamorous and just started seeing someone so 🤷.
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