So I just went through my boyfriend phone while he was sleep & im pretty sure we all know what I found....him talking to multiple other females in a relationship type of way. When he wakes up should I act normal? Or confront him about it right then & there.?
See Ive been with this man for 3 years so I didn’t just want to give up completely over an argument now that we have a baby otw. Something we’ve been trying for years now but at this point🤷🏽♀️
yeah I hear ya on that. 3 years is a good amount of time
You definitely still deserve answers though .
The fact of the whole question I’m asking is because even if we’re broken up it’s been what....not even a week. What I found was before we even “broke up” been with him for 3 years so it’s still not in the right
you found messages from a while ago? Oh nah girl.. wake that ass up and ASK HIM FOR ANSWERS
I’d wait, obviously confront him but I’d act normal so you can process it and act in sound mind when you do confront him.
First, screenshot everything and and send it to yourself. Delete those messages to yourself. That way if he tries to delete them, bam you have the proof. Then I would ask him about it. But only the past stuff considering y'all aren't in a relationship.
And word it past tense "how long had you been cheating on me *full first name*"
^ i was going to say basically the same thing as @mychemicalshaymance.
I just woke my (now) husband up any time I found anything I didn’t like, even if it wasn’t cheating related. I’m a crazy bitch. 😭
I wouldn’t even let him sleep
I would wake him up
Take screenshots of what you found and send it to your phone so he can’t deny it
Take down the names of the girls as well
I would definitely be confronting him. & like @dscroggins08 wake his ass up!!!!!
Listen to cardi bs song thru your phone react like that!!! So sorry hun
I would confront him asap. Thats not right at all or fair to you. You guys are in relationship and baby on the way
This is what I played when I went through the same exact thing. Oh he was pissed.
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Post the receipts first before waking him up
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Why you always messy 🤣
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you’re one to talk 🤣
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First, screenshot everything and and send it to yourself. Delete those messages to yourself. That way if he tries to delete them, bam you have the proof. Then I would ask him about it. But only the past stuff considering y'all aren't in a relationship.
Shay··
And word it past tense "how long had you been cheating on me *full first name*"
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This