Okay so this may be a weird question.. idk. My mom was married to a guy for years (not my dad) his family became my family. His parents were my “mamaw and papaw” because I dont have any living grandparents. Anyways, his mom passed away and her funeral is tomorrow. Here the weird question part. Would it be weird if I went to the funeral to pay my respects. I won’t be staying for the whole thing just basically want to go and pay my respect to her and her husband. Some of my ex-stepdads family still invite me to birthday gatherings and such we still talk when we run into each other. I don’t want to make my ex-stepdad or his new wife/kids feel uncomfortable or anything. I know the rest of the family wouldn’t mind for me making a quick appearance but I don’t want to be “out of my place” or anything cause she wasn’t “blood family” but that’s how she always treated me. We had so many little in side jokes, she used to pick me up from high school and take me to her work to get my favorite snack (or bring them with her) she hand made me a quilt for Christmas one year and we had a pancake morning tradition for Christmas (sometimes she’d call me to come eat pancakes even if it wasn’t Christmas... I just don’t want to cause any trouble by going to pay my respects and say hi to her husband and let him know if he needs anything I’m just a phone call away...