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Casey
kotasmomy2317
Casey·Мама дочки (8 лет)
Okay so this may be a weird question.. idk. My mom was married to a guy for years (not my dad) his family became my family. His parents were my “mamaw and papaw” because I dont have any living grandparents. Anyways, his mom passed away and her funeral is tomorrow. Here the weird question part. Would it be weird if I went to the funeral to pay my respects. I won’t be staying for the whole thing just basically want to go and pay my respect to her and her husband. Some of my ex-stepdads family still invite me to birthday gatherings and such we still talk when we run into each other. I don’t want to make my ex-stepdad or his new wife/kids feel uncomfortable or anything. I know the rest of the family wouldn’t mind for me making a quick appearance but I don’t want to be “out of my place” or anything cause she wasn’t “blood family” but that’s how she always treated me. We had so many little in side jokes, she used to pick me up from high school and take me to her work to get my favorite snack (or bring them with her) she hand made me a quilt for Christmas one year and we had a pancake morning tradition for Christmas (sometimes she’d call me to come eat pancakes even if it wasn’t Christmas... I just don’t want to cause any trouble by going to pay my respects and say hi to her husband and let him know if he needs anything I’m just a phone call away...
05.08.2019

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kotasmomy2317
Casey·Мама дочки (8 лет)
Thank you ladies!
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jessicalaneee
Jessica LG·Мама троих детей
I dont think it'd be weird at all.
Is actually just did this to my grandma ex husband, he was my moms step dad and my grandma divorced him when I was 2 but I still grew up with him being my grandfather and that entire side of the family being my aunt/uncle/cousins though technically we werent.
I think he'll be very happy you came, and it will be a nice little surprise for him.
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prettygirl20
Ki·Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)
No it’s not weird, you were once apart of her life. Go
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householdceo
Kristen ·Мама троих детей
I don't think it's weird.
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brownsugarluv
A J·Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Sorry for your loss. I think she would appreciate your presence. If anyone has a problem with that then it sucks.. You shouldn’t suffer for their feelings.
Best of luck.
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west87coast
T·Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Family is family always not by blood but by choice. I think it would be wonderful if you went. Sorry for your loss.
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yurmomsahoe
A·Мама троих детей
Not weird at all. That's very respectful of you. Soo sorry for your loss..
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