@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
We've decided to start potty training our 22 month old since he can pull down his pants, we've thrown ourselves into it. Now the question is, can 22 month olds be manipulative 😳? This child is something else. If we're having him do something he doesn't want to do, like going down for a nap, he'll start saying potty, if we let him go, he just runs all over the place, I guess forgetting he wanted to use the potty 🤦🏿 ♀ Is this a thing? I just go get him and have him sit on the potty and I tell him, "if you say you want to use the potty, then you must use the potty." I feel like I should work on him not "telling lies." But idk what this behavior is. Can 22 month olds be manipulative, and a liar? Someone told me "he's intelligent to know that saying potty will get him out of something he doesn't want to do." I say... this some bull... 😑😒 Another thing, when I try to get him to look at me when I'm trying to tell him he did something wrong, he does not make eye contact. I get down on my knee in front of him, he looks away, I cup his chin with my hand to have him face me, or say "Nordo, look at mommy please," he averts his eyes... you guys 😓 somedays I feel like he's a sociopath 😬 I don't say that out loud though 😅 ugh, I know, I'm CRAZY, but man... what are the chances? lol
I am honestly in complete shock rn . Me & my bf really just broke up . & the sad part is I'm the one who did the breaking up . I've never seen him so upset . What did I do ? Like I can't even cry . I have no emotion . To know that I just broke up with my boyfriend who I supposedly loved so much . Maybe I didn't love him . Or maybe I couldn't love him the way he needed to be loved. idk all I know is I got tired of being a pain in his ass . I think it's for the best ... He'll find someone who appreciates him one day I just know I'm not that girl . I'm not the one for him . 💔
Ok I know I've done a few of these but my friend posted this on FB and we're getting some hilarious results. This was my last text:
Hi, I'm Kim Mum To 3 And I Have 1 Angel Baby 😊😊 Can't Wait To Meet New People ·
Maby a toy box with his name on what he can cherish forever and not out grow it x
Zoe ··
Мама сына-младенца
That's a beautiful idea, thank you x
Hi, I'm Kim Mum To 3 And I Have 1 Angel Baby 😊😊 Can't Wait To Meet New People ··
welcome x
Sara-Louise·
Best leaving it till nearer the time. You'll have a better idea what he can do. He might be crawling... might not. So helps decide what kind of things to get. Also 7months he'll be happy with a box so anything you get I'm sure he'll love 😂
Zoe ··
Мама сына-младенца
That's the problem, I have to start buying little bits here and there now as I don't get much money so it's hard to save up
That's why I'm struggling so much with ideas 😂🤦🏻♀️ x
Sara-Louise·
You could put the money aside each month. I have to start earliesh as well because I can't afford to do it all in December. The problem I find with buying too early is I end up seeing other stuff which they might be more into but I've already got them a load already 🤣 Morgan was 7.5months his 1st Christmas & we got him this crawl around activity car which he loved.
Zoe ··
Мама сына-младенца
I've been looking at something like that it's just hard to guess what he's gonna be into 😂🤷🏻♀️
Tammy·
Best thing my girls got for their first Xmas was wooden blocks. Sounds silly but they get so much more out of it than big items. Kids need very little early on!
Zoe ·
Мама сына-младенца
@tbrooks15 @vixster thank you ladies xx
Casey·
I got my boy toot toot brought it out in summer after Xmas, bricks to pile up, light up toys, bubble machine and the v tech ride on train with the alphabet blocks. He was 10 months I bought more for him to grow into