So I’ve got a problem. The other day my husband and I got new phones. He was Verizon and I was att but then I switch to be on his Verizon plan. So in order to do so Verizon assigned me a temporary number until my current number could transport over. So Monday I text my husband from the temporary number that he did not save in his phone. I text “ what are doing “ and he replied” out to eat who is this”? Mind you I’m out to work and I knew he was meeting a former student for lunch. I jokingly replied “ your boo”. His reply was “ Which one I got a new phone”? I then replied “ you are playing right?” And he said “no”. I’ve been sick to my stomach for two days thinking about this and I have yet to confront him about it. He’s been acting strange as well like when he gets home he avoids me by staying in another room or napping . He even text me yesterday and asked me how to look up a phone number but wouldn’t tell me why he needed to look up the phone number. I’m hurt but I’m more angry than anything because what I have to put up with with him . How would you bring this up?
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How are you doing today?
I read your latest comment just now. I'm sorry you're going through this.
I’m not so great I’ve been crying in private and I’m sick to my stomach. I still haven’t confronted him yet because I’m trying to calm down before I approach the situation. He’s guilty and there’s just no way around it.
@dtrimew16 take all the time you need. It's a tough thing to come to terms with.
Do you still have the temp number?
You can confront him but chances are he will lie once he realizes it was you.
Yes I still have the number. I checked his texts this morning while I he was sleep and he has erased it from his messages. So yea he’s trying to hide it
@dtrimew16, if you still have his number I would message him from it again. And just play along with him. See what it turns into.
Agree with leowifey.
Give yourself a minute to relax and calm down. It's hard to do but with a clear mind you won't over react too much. Approach him and ask how lunch went, how his day was ect. Give him a chance or two to bring it up. Then ask him about it.
Hell I'm petty I'd use Verizon's nice little feature that allows you to schedule a message to be sent. I'd set up a text for right when I'm asking so I don't have my phone present and he won't realize it's me. Then I'd take that opportunity to ask him "oh who is it? Not one of your other boos is it" light chuckle like I'm joking. Then hit em with the faaaacts if he doesn't spill.
If he's acting weird like that around you, he has a hunch that it was you and is trying to avoid a confrontation about it.
Ask him how lunch was the other day. Anything strange happen? Give him a chance to own up. If he doesn't, call him out. "So it's not unusual to get a text from an unknown number claiming to be your boo?" And game on.
I hate this for you, I would just show him the text and ask him about it. That’s very very sketchy..
Oh hell naw. Show him the texts and demand an explanation. Hes obviously talking to other women.
Wooow. Was he there when Verizon said about giving you a temporary number? If so maybe he was joking? Does he let you see his phone at all?
I agree w soontobe4 keep it going and see what he says. He could of just been playing arpund
Just make absolute sure it was actually going to his phone.
For two months straight randomly when I’d text my mom it would go to another woman’s phone.. I was so confused, and the other woman was getting annoyed. When I’d call, my mom always answered.
Finally, it just stopped happening.
It was AT&T, and they swore it wasn’t their fault, but that it did happen.
Oh hell no. I would still text him when he gets home and play that shit out. Bitch you want to ask who this is and your married. I would ask if he could meet me and then show up and whoop his ass. Prayers for you
Oh hell no... do you still have that text conversation on your phone? I would screenshot and send it to him, inform him he no longer needs to look up the number, because it was in fact, his wife. And take it from there... I’m so sorry this is happening to you.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
my baby daddy punched me in my nose twice. All because the phone he has I GAVE IT TO HIM! Its MyOld Phone And he been talking to this girl and so i said give me my phone back! I didnt give it to you for that reason. And i got it and he was trying to take it back and he hit me .
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I am the queen of blowing up phones. this man thinks he can ignore phone calls now. too bad I got numbers and ways. hope you enjoy seeing 100+ missed calls and some texts.
I Still Angry Because I Seen A Text From Another Girl In His Phone But He Said His Homie Uses His Phone To Text Females...BUT WHY ARE YOU LETTING HIM IF HE HAS HIS OWN PHONE ! I'm Not Understanding. The Way He Put It He Sounds Like Hes Telling Me The Truth..SHOULD I TEXT THIS BITCH AND CURSE HER LIFELESS ASS OUT FOR TRYING TO RUIN A REALATIONSHIP????
@dtrimew16, definitely text him from that number and see if you can get a name or something. Then bust his ass with the screenshots. What a dick.