Up freaking out about my doctor visit... I will be 35 weeks & I don't want my cervix checked 😫
Mine checked me at 39 weeks with my oldest, with my youngest I had him at 38 weeks and wasnt checked but was told at the next appointment I would be
I really am thinking of telling them no 😞 it's just the uncomfortable way they can make you feel when you decline certain things.
@deeshaylove, they shouldn’t make you feel that way. There’s no reason to check, especially at 35 weeks. My CNM was on my page about cervix checks. At my 39 week appt she asked if I wanted it and I declined and she was perfectly fine with that
@flamingomom thanks for the advice I hate that often I feel guilty about standing up to how i feel & guilty if I don't.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
They don't have to check it if your don't want them to. Just let them know