I really am thinking of telling them no 😞 it's just the uncomfortable way they can make you feel when you decline certain things.

@deeshaylove, they shouldn’t make you feel that way. There’s no reason to check, especially at 35 weeks. My CNM was on my page about cervix checks. At my 39 week appt she asked if I wanted it and I declined and she was perfectly fine with that

@flamingomom thanks for the advice I hate that often I feel guilty about standing up to how i feel & guilty if I don't.