Up freaking out about my doctor visit... I will be 35 weeks & I don't want my cervix checked 😫
Mine checked me at 39 weeks with my oldest, with my youngest I had him at 38 weeks and wasnt checked but was told at the next appointment I would be
I really am thinking of telling them no 😞 it's just the uncomfortable way they can make you feel when you decline certain things.
@deeshaylove, they shouldn’t make you feel that way. There’s no reason to check, especially at 35 weeks. My CNM was on my page about cervix checks. At my 39 week appt she asked if I wanted it and I declined and she was perfectly fine with that
@flamingomom thanks for the advice I hate that often I feel guilty about standing up to how i feel & guilty if I don't.
They don't have to check it if your don't want them to. Just let them know