Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀ Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was fine 🙄
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
What would you do? - baby shower SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever, I don't need her, I didn't have this baby for her to raise. I'm married, living on my own and paying all my own expenses.
Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of doing that and I worry she's gonna put me on the spot the day before and say he won't take a bottle (cos she wouldn't have tried) so she either can't come or has to bring him. I'm spending a lot of money for her dress, hair make up food ect... so deffo don't wanna be let down. But it's not just her that's got kids the ushers have kids and we said no kids. Now I know it's different as she's feeding him but I dunno what to do!? Do I say she can bring him (if my oh agrees too) or do I say she can't. This all sounds so awful when I read it but there will be two other guests that will have newer baby's than that coming and they arnt bringing them. The biggest thing is she's just not talking to me about any of this she's ignoring my messages and not making contact with me. But she's spoken to a friend about it who told her to talk to me and be honest about it all! Torn tbh as she's already not coming on my hen but still hasn't told me this!!! If she just came to me and said look I'm feeding my baby I don't wanna bottle feed him so either he comes or I can't I'd be happier she's being honest rather than dragging it out making out she gonna try and express. I don't expect her to I said it's down to her it's her baby. May I add that we fell out a while ago as she wasn't bothering with me ect any way we made up and I asked her be part of the wedding again so she could have said then I can but il have a baby then, but she didn't she just said it will be fine il sort out. So stressed ?
Amy O.·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I was just looking up posts with MIL in them and stumbled upon this. What happened? Did she take him? I won’t even let my 3 year old stay at grandmas, or even let her get in grandmas car, so I would say your MIL is very lucky you even let her take your son to her house.
Brittany··
Мама сына (1 год)
Sorry for the late reply! Lol she didn’t end up taking him I think she ended up having to work or something came up to where she couldn’t get him for the day
Amy O.··
Мама двоих (младенец)
that worked out! I don’t know why it feels like a competition between mom and MIL... mom will always WIN.
💋🦋·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (33 нед.)
She needs to tell U BOTH the same thing and not let out any information when talking to u, it is a big deal ur his mother if u don’t want to I would speak up and say that, it’s up to u, ur the One who takes care of him 24/7! And that’s A little far!
Brianna Montgomery ·
Мама сына (1 год)
If she’s taken him places before and he’s been okay I dont think I’d mind it at his age . If he was under a year I think I def would but her not mentioning it is definitely not okay. I would let him go but I would have a conversation saying that next time you need to know if she plans on bringing him places like that. And say you want phone calls or pictures every how ever often while they’re there . Grandparents love our babies too!
Brittany··
Мама сына (1 год)
I get that! It’s just how she went about it you know 😕
Brianna Montgomery ··
Мама сына (1 год)
yeah I would definitely have a conversation about that. Cause if she just took him and then I found out they were that far later I’d be mad
RoseMom·
Мама двоих (младенец)
So this might sound petty but just hear me out
I would say no just because she didn’t have the decency to tell me herself. It’s as if she didn’t want you to find out? Was she planning on telling you? In my opinion and with all respect to her I think that’s disrespectful to you you’re the mom
But also yeah I would be all sorts of paranoid to have my son so far away
Brittany··
Мама сына (1 год)
That’s how I feel about it. I feel she would have told me as she was walking out the door with him. As soon as my SO told me about it I’m like I don’t like that she never told me anything at all.
Brittany··
Мама сына (1 год)
She does things like that cause she knows I’m paranoid about everything. I wouldn’t let him stay with her for about a year and she’d always get mad about it. She’d ask his dad and he’d say yes to everything cause he isn’t full of anxiety like me so she probably knew telling him I’d probably never hear about it but if something were to happen she’d be able to say she told him
RoseMom··
Мама двоих (младенец)
yeah I have a similar situation at home as well. But no be more firm and tell her no because if you let it slide once she’ll do it again. I’m sorry if I’m intruding that’s my opinion but yeah he’s your child.
Brittany·
Мама сына (1 год)
I wanted to make sure I wasn’t the only one uncomfortable with the thought of your child being that far away from you
Brittany·
Мама сына (1 год)
I know they wouldn’t let anything happen to him but still things happen. She’s not as strict with things with him because well she’s a grandma lol. Like she’d let him walk around the places if he wanted to as for me I’d keep him in the stroller and not let go of it for my life. 🤷🏽♀️
Luna_bear ·
Мама троих детей
3 hours in the car sounds like time wasted that they could be doing something fun. I wouldn't want anyone taking my kids that far without me. And I wouldn't want them stuck in the car for that long
Brittany··
Мама сына (1 год)
It’s a hour and a half, but I know what you meant lol. People are too crazy these days for me to feel comfortable with him going places where I don’t even take him. 😖
Luna_bear ··
Мама троих детей
an hour and a half there and an hour and a half back...3 hours?
Brittany··
Мама сына (1 год)
oh duh 😂😂
❥Leslie·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (31 нед.)
he will be with people that love him and won't intentionally put him in harms way. They should have mentioned it to you for sure though 😣 I need to know exactly where my daughter will be!
BunsInMyOven·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I would ask her to tell YOU if she has a desire to take him somewhere out of town. You should know where you child is in the event of an emergency. Nothing wrong w that at all.