Lol sorry y'all.i haven't seen her n a few years and even then she was struggling with cps (child protection services). Now I see her at the beach, invite her over and she has another kid, who was not gaining weight properly so they took him, her mom has one kid, and her bd has the other. So that's 3 kids. And she was selling drugs in between all of this. In my head I was like " yea I'm blocked your no the second you leave" on top of that she was harshly musty.
Being a bad parent is definitely a turn off for me . Different choices is one thing . Like me and my best friend have different parenting views about certain things that we both feel very strongly about but we don’t let that affect us . But being an overall bad parent turns me away lol. I’ve given up a friendship for that.
She’s definitely not a good mom, but maybe there is a reason you two met up again. Maybe try guiding her, help her. If she doesn’t listen or try then remove yourself. I’m the type of person who tries to help.
I was friends with the girl and our kids was best friends and it was said that she watched her husband spank her daughter and didn't do anything. I was still there for her because she lost her daughter's and I watched her other baby. Well chargers was filied and I wouldn't go to court and "help" them so I had to cut her off.
The girl I cut off never had her kid . Literally her mother in law and baby daddy had him 24/7 while she smoked and fucked whoever she wanted and didn’t do anything with herself . Since the day he was born he slept in her mother in laws room cause she just didn’t wanna take care of him. She blamed it on post partum but he was three by the time she wanted anything to do with him and that’s only cause her and her baby daddy got back together . If I showed y’all how she has this kid in his car seat you guys would be sick. I’ve said something multiple times and she doesn’t care . And now she’s planning a second . I cant be associated with people like that.
You’re as good as the company you keep. Or something like that. Surround yourself around people who you respect and feel respected by. Be around people who positively impact yours and your children’s lives.
My bf was a bad parent. No longer friends because she chose drugs over everything. I was still her friend but she wasn't abusive or anything like that just a little selfish. She wasn't mean to them but she ended up losing them all because of her drug use. She screwed me out of money and there went our friendship.
Nope. Cause I can’t keep my mouth shut so we would end up arguing anyway & im sure that’s gonna mean her kids are gonna be bad because of bad parenting so I’m not gonna have them influence my kids.
I couldn’t do it. I don’t do drugs, I take care of my daughter better than myself. Being around someone who has drugs on them puts you and your own children at risk!
BunsInMyOven·
Depends on what you mean by bad.... I would say.
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Define bad.
Melissa ·
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mickey😚·
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Lol sorry y'all.i haven't seen her n a few years and even then she was struggling with cps (child protection services). Now I see her at the beach, invite her over and she has another kid, who was not gaining weight properly so they took him, her mom has one kid, and her bd has the other. So that's 3 kids. And she was selling drugs in between all of this. In my head I was like " yea I'm blocked your no the second you leave" on top of that she was harshly musty.
Brianna Montgomery ··
Being a bad parent is definitely a turn off for me . Different choices is one thing . Like me and my best friend have different parenting views about certain things that we both feel very strongly about but we don’t let that affect us . But being an overall bad parent turns me away lol. I’ve given up a friendship for that.
SammieGirl··
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She’s definitely not a good mom, but maybe there is a reason you two met up again. Maybe try guiding her, help her. If she doesn’t listen or try then remove yourself. I’m the type of person who tries to help.
mickey😚··
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yea....if she reach out again I'll try that
Brooke H·
I was friends with the girl and our kids was best friends and it was said that she watched her husband spank her daughter and didn't do anything. I was still there for her because she lost her daughter's and I watched her other baby. Well chargers was filied and I wouldn't go to court and "help" them so I had to cut her off.
mickey😚··
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Damn that suck
Brooke H··
yeah. I will not be around someone like that
mickey😚·
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@imisssleep123456789 @briannalynn547 hell yes it's a major turn off...
Brianna Montgomery ··
The girl I cut off never had her kid . Literally her mother in law and baby daddy had him 24/7 while she smoked and fucked whoever she wanted and didn’t do anything with herself . Since the day he was born he slept in her mother in laws room cause she just didn’t wanna take care of him. She blamed it on post partum but he was three by the time she wanted anything to do with him and that’s only cause her and her baby daddy got back together . If I showed y’all how she has this kid in his car seat you guys would be sick. I’ve said something multiple times and she doesn’t care . And now she’s planning a second . I cant be associated with people like that.
Avah Cruz·
You’re as good as the company you keep. Or something like that. Surround yourself around people who you respect and feel respected by. Be around people who positively impact yours and your children’s lives.
Kristen ·
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My bf was a bad parent. No longer friends because she chose drugs over everything. I was still her friend but she wasn't abusive or anything like that just a little selfish. She wasn't mean to them but she ended up losing them all because of her drug use. She screwed me out of money and there went our friendship.
Dusty ·
I had a friend doe 17 years she fucked up and lost her kid I havnt talked to her since
mickey😚·
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Seems easier to stay away...we the same age. Both our moms we're drug addicts.she know better
🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸·
Nope. Cause I can’t keep my mouth shut so we would end up arguing anyway & im sure that’s gonna mean her kids are gonna be bad because of bad parenting so I’m not gonna have them influence my kids.
mickey😚··
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True
mickey😚·
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True
PeanutJones325·
I couldn’t do it. I don’t do drugs, I take care of my daughter better than myself. Being around someone who has drugs on them puts you and your own children at risk!