I agree with @bodybycheetos definitely save these messages. Little does he know he just showed himself. When you're going through anything regarding custody this attitude is not the way to go. Remember to keep things light. Preferably only text if you do respond to him so you'll have proof of the negativity. All he wants to do is hurt your feelings. Trust me Hang in there k🙏❤
@mylaishaprince9 but through the courts all that ignorance will not be able to partake. Only what is truthful and in the best interest of the child. I know it's easier said than done but you've got this. You are just going to have to be strong through this love. Knowing you have these messages should motivate you a bit that he obviously doesn't have it all the way together if he can't even present his feelings through text in a non threatening manner smh lol. He's just talking and if he isn't, just have your ducks in row and have faith!
Courts don’t like to take a child from their mother however if one parent has better means of providing for that child court tends to go their way since it’s in the best interest of the child
@mylaishaprince9 that's right . His threats are only there cause he knows u already won hunny . If not he be keeping his mouth shut .
I would honestly ignore him and save all the messages he sends you. He sounds like an idiot.
yeah save all these messages. he doesn’t sound like he even knows what HE wants. he wants you to get an abortion or have a baby just so he can try taking it away? bum.
Is this your bf? If so, hes an idiot. They won't give full custody to a parent based solely on the fact that the other parent is unemployed and this is their first child 🙄 and by saying "I've been here before sweetheart"..I'm assuming he has other kids? Full-time right because he is such an amazing parent? 😑 He sounds like a douchebag. Let it go in one ear and out the other.
Right that’s why I said just because I’m unemployed doesn’t mean your gona get custody and he had 3 other kids this will be his fourth...and no he’s on child support for all of his kids
Is Mel short for Melvin? That threw me off. Lol. BUT anyways, what’s the back story on how shit went down between y’all? Also block his bitch ass you don’t need that type of negativity.
He’s just too much right now he told me to get an abortion then turns around and says I will not allow you to vanish with my child and that he will fight to get custody
My advice that you didn't ask for: save all of these messages.

And some of these people would still do it for free. 🤦🏾♀️

Not my ideal situation at 21 weeks 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️

I need a Christmas outfit for baby Zi but I’m stuck 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️

My daughter wants this damn thing for Christmas 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ that takes up 2 toys that I wanted to get her 😩😩😩
Johnny Johnny .. YES PAPA !!!
Any other moms constantly sings this song 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😂😂😂
My advice that you didn't ask for: save all of these messages.