My last post... this would be my third baby my first pregnancy I did everything on my own I went…

Your post was just confusing, I don't think anyone there was being stink about it. You can't make someone be with you because you're having a baby though, just know that. It was probably bad timing to try for a baby when you guys weren't together if this is the outcome you expected. I do hope things work out for you and yours.

I’m sorry if it was me who came across that way, I was very confused by the post.

Remember when you had your son, I’m sure you felt unprepared; there is so much we think we can’t handle until we are in the situation. I’m sorry you’re going through heartache. Just remember your worth doesn’t lie with what this man thinks of you or says to you. Take it one day at a time❤️

A baby doesn’t keep a man. He’s going to leave regardless. I would’ve never planned to have a baby with someone who doesn’t make up his mind if he wants to be with me or not. He sounds childish. I would never abort my baby for a man either.

I went through the same thing with my kids father. Only difference is that we were together at the time and he wanted me to abort my 2nd daughter. I told him no but he kept trying to convince me. We went to the place and everything but I just couldn’t do it. He called me stupid for not wanting to abort. His excuse was that we were young still( I was already 18) and that we didn’t have a big place, well I had my own house. He was living with his aunt. The funny thing of everything is that when my 2nd was about 7 or 8 months, I found out that he got someone pregnant 🙄 and funny that he said he was “too young to have more kids” He was 20 at that time.

Sorry for the long comment. I hope everything works out for you hun. It will get better.

Remember the decision is yours and you have to live with whatever decision you decide. It’s so easy for people to look from the outside and to tell you how they would handle it. You have to do what’s best for you. I will say, as a single mom myself that you can do it and everything will work out. Your situation and circumstances today, won’t be your situation and circumstances forever. If you play your cards right, things just get better in time. You work hard, you raise your kids and you focus on healing and bettering. One day a man will find you and make you and your kids his family. So please don’t feel like you can’t keep your baby because he isn’t ready for kids.