So since I can’t comment on the post anymore. My comment was edited because I decided to just…
So since I can’t comment on the post anymore. My comment was edited because I decided to just comment what I was going to say so my original comment was irrelevant. Don’t come for me if I didn’t send for you 💁🏾♀️.
Fuckyourself·
😩😭😂
kesha hicks··
If you would of asked you would of got the answer. In my original comment I said I wasn’t going to reply to be peaceful. Then I founded a way to word it that didn’t sound mean so I decided to comment. 🙄. If I said I wasn’t going to comment then commented it would of been a contradiction 🤷🏾♀️.
Fuckyourself··
founded? What are you 2? This comment makes no sense. I genuinely do not believe you came up with a well worded comment
kesha hicks··
I think my comment was really nice. I said it in a way that wouldn’t come of mean at all. Plus the comment wasn’t to you. And clearly founded was a mistake. But you’re welcome to your opinion.
kesha hicks·
The article mentions Corporal punishment. That’s not the type of spanking I was referring to. I said pops with your hand. I said the counselor said if done correctly. It’s not word of mouth he is a very good doctor who works with kids the same as those who wrote this article. He has also worked with kids in juvenile centers. I don’t believe in spanking with a belt or object. But I have had to pop my daughters hand. But parents can parent however they choose. I know plenty of people who got pops or light hand spankings as kids who have no issues and are very successful adults. I’m not saying anyone should spank their kids that’s not my place to say, but what I did say is I don’t think parents who do are putting their kids in harms way. Unless they are beating them or doing harsh spanking. But once again parent however you like whatever works for you and your house hold clearly how you parent works for you, and how I parent works for me. I will say that if you pop or spank your child and it doesn’t work, then you need to change your way of parenting find out what works for your child.
kesha hicks··
@klazaro, I said it wasn’t true then explained why. And I’m not just going on my observations. Like in my original comment I had this talk with my daughters counselor. Someone who studies childhood behavior and works with juveniles. But this this has nothing to do with spankings vs not spanking. It’s about rather or not spankings cases harm to the child and it doesn’t unless it’s over done, or abusive. Now we could have different views on spankings and you might see it was something more harsh like more of a beating. But to me spankings isn’t picking up a belt and hitting my kid repeatedly.
TayTay·
I'm just wondering where my child's mental disorder is from being spanked?
kesha hicks·
@klazaro, I’ve read the articles and they are interesting reads. I will always try to see someone else’s point of view so let me ask you a question. Are you thinking along the lines of the child getting spankings then having the thought process of if I mess up I will get a spanking and will be physical punished for messing up no matter how small the punishment?
kesha hicks··
@klazaro, my daughter hasn’t got a spanking in years I can count the number of spankings she has gotten on one hand. But we don’t do it to scare her. Everything doesn’t require a spankings but she knows her hard limits and she knows she will get many warnings. We will do time outs we will take things away she has even told me they don’t hurt. She never cries after one. It’s not that hard just enough to get her attention and let her know the line has been crossed. Everybody doesn’t spank the same. But we’re not going to agree. I can see your view because you said you grew up in a house with spanking and you have a view on it. We can agree to disagree.