Idk, me personally it’s always been about their presence not their presents. I could give a shit less if you ever spent a dollar on me or my family, we’re good🙌🏽 what I DO care about is who was there for us despite not having the money to buy a gift. Usually when someone doesn’t get a gift, it has nothing to do with them CHOOSING that and has a lot to do with their situation. Humble yourself. Because at any given second you could lose everything and easily be in that position.
What’s up with people these days expecting everyone to give them everything they need for a baby? 🤦🏼♀️
Seriously, I just don't get it. If you can't financially support a child, why are you trying to conceive?
I've never had a baby shower so, but to a certain extent I agree even though it's about bringing a new life into the world not really the gifts but there are a lot of people who attend baby showers,cookouts or any get together just for the food.( that's just the way some of my family members are set up as long as there's food their there)
That's bullshit. It's about celebrating a child with the people you love! Gifts aren't everything.
I didn’t have a baby shower. I bought all big items and pretty much everything else and only received clothes from my sister and mom. Why would I expect people to support a child they didn’t plan on having. If people want to give, no problem. But if they don’t I can’t be upset about it.
Rude, plain out rude. Petty ass.
That’s what I do too!! Teaches my kids not to be greedy too! Not to expect anything and be thankful for what you do get!
@guitarplayer4him exactly, I also just dont want everyone to feel obliged to bring something. Even if they don't, I don't want them to feel bad. I just want everyone to be there open minded to have a good time and to celebrate tbh
Gifts are not expected at any party in our family, it’s always appreciated but everyone is welcome with or without a gift!
This girl in the post actually sounds like a freeloader while we’re all bullshitting 🤨🤧
I had bunch of people on my baby shower and bunch of gifts... and I don’t even know if everyone who attended brought one lol because that’s not what i cared about. 🙄
I mean maybe someone is a good friend can’t afford a gift, but wants to be there to support you and show love...? 🤷🏻♀️ physical gifts aren’t everything.
Nobody is obligated to buy you or the baby anything. Expecting anything is greedy. They are there to celebrate a new child coming into the world.
I think expecting a gift is trashy & not feeding someone who maybe couldn't afford to get a gift is even trashier.
Not having a present isn't a big deal to me. Honestly she does sound petty. It's to celebrate a new life not let's see how many presents I get.
I’m with @nerdymommyplus2 but obviously people have different reasons for baby showers
Sounds like the same chick who came on here and started talking shit about that and then got mad when everyone told her how dumb it sounded and careless then she went and posted how every white person was racist. A baby shower is not about gifts it’s about celebrating the life of a baby that you’re bringing into this world
@mychemicalshaymance, oh I know because I almost contacted them I just got sidetracked with my kids and my husband.. Stupid to put all of your info out there after you just bashed a bunch of women, and she wished death on multiple babies and multiple people.. she’s probably never had a miscarriage before anybody who’s ever ever had a miscarriage will understand that losing a baby is one of the most painful experiences you’ll ever experience. I’m sorry she came at you like that she should’ve never done that☹️
@_mumof2 not that I know of. They weren't really responding to messages or answering phones sadly.
To celebrate the birth /arrival of a child. It's not about gifts. And also don't want to feed guests then don't provide food and state it in the invitation 🤷
Someone posted something like that on here. And I kinda agree.because I get sick of spending bunch of money on bdqy party's and no one brings gift. Like um theirs a dollar tree
To celebrate the birth /arrival of a child. It's not about gifts. And also don't want to feed guests then don't provide food and state it in the invitation 🤷