I waited until after my dr appointment. Not that it was enjoyable for a while anyway 😕. You really should wait, your dr doesn’t tell you “nothing in the vagina for 6 weeks” for no reason. You need time to heal properly and completely.
4 weeks. But I agree with the above comment. It’s very dangerous to have anything inserted into your vagina before 6 weeks pp due to risk of infection.
Please wait until your doctor gives you the all clear. You have a gaping wound in your uterus where your placenta was attached, and that needs time to heal. Your husband or SO can wait.