A year ago I caught my husband messaging his ex, he hasnt done it since. This past week or so he's been acting really strange and I know I probably shouldn't snoop through our computer but I did and I found him looking up his ex this morning. I am insanely upset and I don't know what to do anymore.
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He has given you a reason not to trust him in the past, he has no right to be mad at you snooping around his stuff confront him about it
There’s no snooping if it’s your computer too .. U have the right to see wats been looked up on your computer.. he’s obviously not over his ex and I’d confront him and leave him cuz clearly he misses her and she’s always on his mind if he sometimes gets the temptation to look her up or text her
Fuck him and his feelings. You are MARRIED. You have a child TOGETHER. You are PREGNANT.
Confront his bitch ass. He gets mad? Let him. Tell him to man the fuck up, be respectful of the marriage or leave out the damn door.
I feel like his feelings are irrelevant in this matter. He has none towards his marriage and so she should think about what she needs to say to him more than how he will feel. He has already thought about not giving a hoot about hers.
I would think about how much he has not changed and figure out whether to stick it out with an unfaithful person or move on and cope with the changes. He has not moved on.
I mean, would you do the same thing and research your ex with the consequence of losing a partner? No... because you are over it and moved on.
I would confront him and let go, he’s obviously no over her if he feels the need to keep looking her up. I’d be hurt also but if you caught him twice that’s a sign
I would say something about it .... be honest how you feel and just be calm I would say it’s normal for people to look up their exes but given the history I understand your concern ..
@pnrl1992. I would curse him out. When i was with my kids father, he was always in contact with his ex from DR & every time I confronted him about it, all he would say is that they are friends. Mind you, they dont have kids together. When I was pregnant with my first, I found out that they were together when he went to DR. She posted a picture of them together so that's how I found out he was still messing with her.
So there's a reason why her husband is still searching up his ex.
@j.concepcion, I’m sorry you had to go through that, specially pregnant that’s terrible... I agree that if he did it before who is to say he isn’t looking her up for the same reasons.
@pnrl1992. Definitely!
It's okay no worries. I was only 16 when I got with him. I was stupid and thought he really loved me. I was dealing with his shit for almost 4 years. Oh and he got someone pregnant when my 2nd daughter was only like 8 months if I'm not mistaken.
I'm glad I decided to leave.
Well, I'd say personally,its time to let him go. I mean repeating his actions the 2nd time. It sounds like hes still hung up over her.
I wouldn't be with someone like that. I went through a similar situation with my kids father.
@jcheller07, he shouldn’t be texting his ex
@jcheller07, who cares if he gets mad! you keep worrying about his feeling and not yours and letting him get away with this he is gonna continue to do it and it’s gonna put you depression and self esteem will be gone!! put your foot down and fuck this your not allowed to touch his phone or go threw it that would be the first thing thrown out the window y’all are married you have the right to have his pass code! I hate people going threw my phone absolutely hate it it gives me anxiety always have even though I have absolutely nothing to hide but I still let my husband have my passcode and use it when he needs it
@jcheller07, and you have every right to go through the computer. It’s yours too. I feel he has no right to get upset he’s texting another woman his ex at that and you’ve told home once not to do it and he’s disrespecting you by doing it again. As a husband he shouldn’t have anything to hide and he does so confront him. You’re pregnant with his child and you are being faithful and he’s not. Faithful doesn’t only mean he went out and cheated
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Fuck him and his feelings. You are MARRIED. You have a child TOGETHER. You are PREGNANT.
Confront his bitch ass. He gets mad? Let him. Tell him to man the fuck up, be respectful of the marriage or leave out the damn door.