Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleeps over his wife's house more that I'm pregnant and I got us our own place than when we were crashing on his ex girls house. I just feel like my child is getting the shit end of the stick and as a mother I feel like a piece of shit. I don't know what to do he doesn't treat me right. lives of off my minimum wage job. I have mental problems so people leaving my life causes long term trauma. so I don't know what I'd do if he weren't around . but he's not a positive influence and I'm expecting my first child.
I need help!!! Something is wrong with my dog and I have no money or job to take him to the vet. I think hes dying idk
Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(
Uhhhh·
Father rights are dependent on what state you're in
Taryn Jolly··
Мама дочки (2 года)
I’m in Illinois
Uhhhh··
It's kinda like KY.
The Voluntariy acknowledgement of paternity (required to get on Birth certificate) just makes it to where dad is financially responsible. It doesn't actually give them rights.
If you got married this wouldn't change. Its only different if he was born after you were married
Uhhhh··
@nerdymommyplus2
https://cordellcordell.com/resources/illinois/chicago-fathers-rights/
Sarah ✨·
Мама двоих (2 года, 7 лет)
My husband and i just recently got married in March, after being together since 2011. We had both our boys in the state of VA and although we weren’t officially married and never went to court for full custody he had all parental rights that i had.
As for debt and such, i believe once you’re married it does become the others.
Amanda·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
Yes he does. Marriage he gets every single right you do. Unwed mothers and fathers no. Ut being on the birth certificate helps. If he werent he'd have no rights unless paternity is established by a jugde