Does this look like a good diaper bag of stuff for in hospital and leaving hospital for baby girl ? I need ideas if not

Just make sure your car seat is installed properly and educate yourself on strapping her in securely. I never had a nurse pay much attention to how my babies were strapped in.

The pink and black pock a dot thing is a swaddler !

Looks good to me! The nipple confusion thing is not true. My sons had a paci day 1 and breastfed fine and same with a lot of people I know. If you want to only breastfeed I'd avoid bottles the first month though if possible.

If you’re planning to breastfeed I would advise against bringing any pacis to avoid the temptation of using them which can lead to nipple confusion in the first few days/weeks. But if you’re going to formula feed it looks like a good assortment of stuff, but also what they said^ maybe bring the wipes for the car ride home, but don’t bother bringing diapers they’ll provide plenty!

Does the hospital give me nursing pads ?!?

Oh yeah the hospital will give you those and take and stash all you can take lol then ask for more haha

You can leave the Pampers & wipes at home the hospital normally give you more than enough. & mittens idk if you'll use those to prevent baby from scratching her face.