mommyof4plus2
Corinne
I feel sad, my sister is only 3 wks behind me in pregnancy, lives in the same town(never Comes to see me, but the only time she calls me is when she says she called me by mistake, She was trying to call her now husband( they just got married last wk at the courthouse after 12yrs). She is so consumed by him he is and has been the last 12 yrs, before him she and I was best friends. I see he is controlling and junk but damn I miss her and more so knowing we could be going through pregnancy together since we are so close in weeks.
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She need to find her backbone, SHE need to find it! No matter how bad the situation is she need to find the strength to fix it & leave his ass where he is. That's very unhealthy eating, it's like she's going downhill bc of him smh. That's a miserable way to live, just continue to talk to her & be there for her but until she's fully tired nothing will change hun. You see she deserves better but she has to want to change. Now if she told you she wants to get out of that then I would go get my sister! Esp when kids are involved
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To you he’s controlling to her that’s her life you can’t blame him for her not calling she’s an adult she has choices if she chooses not to call you can’t blame him. With my family I don’t speak to any of them and I sure they blame my “controlling” fiancé but it honestly has nothing to do with them I choose to stay away. Unless she’s told you he doesn’t want her talking to you he’s not the one to blame.
She is too consumed by him and she is verbally/physically abusive. I understand what you are saying trust me there are times she is not with him she could call but yet she always talks to him and facebook ppl just not me.
I'm going thru the same thing with my 1 and only sister! She isnt pregnant, but ever since I told her I felt her bf(who is my cousin on my mom's side) is controlling her, she's in her feelings. I would just say let her live, if that's how she wants to live then let her. Dont let it upset or affect you bc that's what she wants! I know it hurts, it hurts me bc she was the only person I talked to daily, but hey if that's how she wants to live then let her. Can't upset yourself when obviously she isnt bothered. Hope it gets better hun
Yep she is my only sister, we have never fought we was best friends through school and high school, we had the same friends, went out with our bfs together... then when she met this guy she automatically became withdrawn, he is one those guys whom say he loves huge women, dont give her enough money for real groceries and tells her what to cook and its only stuff her likes and not what we used to eating. They eat like noodles and spaghetti sauces ONLY(no meats), he dont like vegetables so she NEVER cooks vegetables(so bad that my nephew is eating like that as well and only likes unhealthy foods, he is 8 and way overweight). My sister aways been bogger then me but here I am normal size in my lower 100s and my sister is in the 400s by now, cant walk, bad knees, so he can say Ill go shopping, he does the kids Easter and Christmas shopping telling her you'll get tired if you go I'll do it... im just crushed, she gets all mad and defensive when I tell her the truth, but when she is mad at him she complains he spends all his checks on drugs and himself and now she got a job her chexka go to bills and food. My sister and the kids go without all the time bc of this and she wont step up atleast for the kids and do whats right, its all about him.
She need to find her backbone, SHE need to find it! No matter how bad the situation is she need to find the strength to fix it & leave his ass where he is. That's very unhealthy eating, it's like she's going downhill bc of him smh. That's a miserable way to live, just continue to talk to her & be there for her but until she's fully tired nothing will change hun. You see she deserves better but she has to want to change. Now if she told you she wants to get out of that then I would go get my sister! Esp when kids are involved