I’m sick to my stomach even THINKING about telling the “head of the household”.

@brianne just keep quiet till it's time. Pack all your things when your ready to move and the person isint home. Leave and then tell them. Or if they don't ever leave, secretly get your essentials put together and leave when you see a chance. Have your phone handy in case you need the police to help u get out. If they don't let you get the rest of your atuff u can go to the police station and they can have the constable escort you there to get the rest of your things gathered up. Do it before you have been gone 30 days though or else they can't help u.