Should I allow my relationship with my in-laws dictate my marriage. I NEVER would’ve guessed that I would not get along with my in laws. I’ve never had a relationship where the guys parents didnt love me! I just see through their bullish 🙄
At first it was like me against them but now he pretty much stands with me
@ilovemykids18, at least he does now. I would have been gone the first couple of times he didn’t stick up for me. I could never be with some one of their family hates me unless he stops talking to them completely.
@sabi.bishh, girl believe me! I was ready to go.
Hell no! When you marry you leave your family to cleave on to one another don’t allow them to run your relationship. A bond between husband and wife is not to be compromised by their relationship with their parent.
My mother in law ruined my relationship and family .
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Does anyone like their in laws?
With all the posts about terrible in laws I was just wondering if anyone actually likes their in laws?!?! I love me in laws. I'm blessed to have such a wonderful immediate and extended family. My mil loves spending time with my boys. She comes over at least once a week and will sleep over. She gets up with the boys in the morning and let's my husband and I sleep in. My fil is a great man also. He's always coming over to visit and do some odd jobs around the house...
What's wrong with a Bumbo?
I am visiting my in-laws for Mothers Day and I brought my daughters Bumbo along for the trip. Well my in-laws just thought it was the coolest thing. DH's cousin is pregnant and her mom asks her, "did you see the baby's Bumbo chair?" and she snaps "yes!", and her mom asks "do you want one for the baby?" and she goes "NO! I will never use one of those for my child!" and then no one said anything else about it.
How’s your husband been with how his parents treating you? That’s a big factor.