How would y'all take this
I'm white & Mexican my husband's black
My husband says he's bro is having a get together he never invites me I said have u ever thought maybe it bothers me u never invite me
HES RESPONSE What u wanna be the only white person there I instantly hang up and I tripping cause I'm ready for a divorce. R marriage isn't the best and then he says this
Straw that broke the camels back
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I always invite him. He said he didn't want me to feel uncomfy
@motherfirst10 that doesn't make sense. He should invite you regardless. You're his wife.
Tell him how you feel. He might not want you around his father side for other reasons it might not be you could be more so of his father and his family behavior etc.
He said he didn't want me to be u comfortable. But I wouldn't be I grew up in all the black community. Might sounds weirs but I feel more comfortable around them
If he’s embarrassed why tf did he marry you?! I would’ve punched him in the face when he walked thru the door. Def a marriage I wouldn’t be in. He never took you around his fam before marriage? That should’ve been a red flag 🚩
I've been around his mom side a lot but not his dads side
@motherfirst10, yeah that’s weird and wrong. I wouldn’t put up with it
@kx2girlmommy he said because he didn't want me to be uncomfortable he Dont even like going. Because he has white in him and their dad cheated on the other sibling w a white women(he's mom) he didn't go either
Thats so wrong. First off you are mexican as well and labeling is just wrong in itself. Second off yall are together and have kid together. He should invite you to family things. Id be hurt and feel disrespected. I wouldnt be as mad as the racial profiling though. It shouldnt be about race ever
No he is embarrassed he is with a white women. U can't tell I'm Mexican at all.
I think that the fact that your marriage is already on shaky grounds is what heightened the comment for you. Is it that he has never invited you to his family's get together ever since you've been married? Or this particular time he informed you about a family get together, but didn't invite you?
He’s supposed to be your advocate, not push you to the side. That’s extremely disrespectful.
Exactly. Embarrassed by me cause I'm white. So he can divorce my white ass
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I'm shocked. Usually black men love to date outside their race and show the woman off like a trophy. That's sad. Seems like he's the only one worried. Do you invite him to your family events?