Felt like I got a slap in the Face this morning Finally told my ex I was pregnant and his only response was he couldn’t possibly get me pregnant he had a vasectomy 15 yrs ago but yet I have not been with anyone but him so just wow really
My bestfriend is a vasectomy baby
And my other friend got pregnant 5 years after she had her tubes tied
Sounds like he is in shock. I would invite him accompany you to your appts/ultrasounds. If he refuses, then that’s his loss but at least you can say you tried. If he still denies when the pregnancy is through, get a paternity test and he can support the baby financially.
Get a DNA test and prove it to him. I always said that's what id do if my man ever denied it.
Well I have know doubt on it being his that’s on him I just feel stupid I have a non willing to step up but was trying to do what I thought was the right thing
At the end of the day there is a logical reason why he is your ex. I would say just let time pass and allow him to digest the information. It may have come to a shock to him as well. I am sure he is going to come around just give it time. You have a ways to go so no need to stress about it now. I wouldn't take no test at all.
Hope your feel better but don't let it get to you. You know who you were dealing with and you dont have to prove that to anyone.
@cams you're right. Sheri take heart let's go on private