So after a disagreement between my son and spouse on friday, owen and I left for the weekend. We…

So after a disagreement between my son and spouse on friday, owen and I left for the weekend. We have been at a friends house and last night i was texting my husband having an intense conversation and telling him what was wrong. He pretty much told me he knows hes a bad parent, he doesnt want me to step in when he is loosing his temper, and he doesnt want me to ask him what's wrong and trying to fix things in the moment. I dont know if my son and I should go back or if I need to stay away. I haven't been happy for a while and it seems like he doesnt want to work on anything or get the apartment ready for baby.