Finding a place to rent for this weekend. Im done. Maybe if i actually go he'll realize and have…
Finding a place to rent for this weekend. Im done. Maybe if i actually go he'll realize and have time to think. But probably not because people who dont think anything is wrong with their actions will never change. Who knows maybe i wont even come back. Sucks when you used to be so happy all the time and he slowly took that away to where i am angry and pissed all the time. Since my daughters been born basically a year and a half ago. Enough is enough. Need toeave when i still have my sanity left.
Sha·
I've been in your shoes. I packed up the kids and left in the middle of the night while he was asleep. Stayed at my parents for 3 days while he begged for us to come back. Before I came back home, I let him know what needs to change & my expectations and told him if I ever leave again, I'm NEVER coming back. I believe the whole experience was a bit traumatic for him and he never thought I would get up and just leave like that. Coming home to a quiet empty place every night gave him time to think and to really put things into perspective. He now knows how easily he can lose his family and doesn't want that to happen. It's been 3 weeks and things have been so much better between us. Still not perfect, but it's not gonna happen overnight. Do what you think is best hun. Your happiness and mental health is extremely important. Your kids deserve a happy mama, so make that your priority. Much love 💕
Amanda··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
Thank you and yea. Not sure if my daughters father will actually think about things. He thinks it's me.
jeniva conway·
В ожидании первенца
The hardest part will be leaving, after you leave things will be much easier. Trust me, I'm goin through a similar situation. Men dont understand what we as women have to go through and they never will. Keep you head up, things will get better I promise. I pray you find the peace that you need. ❤
Amanda··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
Thank you.
Quina ·
Don't leave your house, kick him out until he gets his act together. I've been where you are. Sometimes you need to follow through in order for him to take you seriously.
Amanda··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
The problem is ive told bim to leave me alone and after work dont even bother coming back so many times this year. Nlt once has he taken me seriously. He doesnt see anything wrong with how he treats me or anybody in his life. He thinks he can be rude and things then when he get home from work change his mood and expect me to as well and when i don't im automatically the bad one. I used to change and still do.sometimes for the sake of my kids seeing both of us on good terms. But we not and havent been for a good while
Mamma Simone·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
I've had a similar experience like @chasha2017. Same thing happened to me. He swore and begged for me and my son to come back. Its was good for a few weeks then he started on his bullshit again.
My opinion if your going to leave be 100% in if not they take it as a joke. I am reaching my breaking point. So I this point I am at the point of return.
Everyone is different and reacts different. Try having one on one deep conversation. Try everything before leading to that point will be my advice. It is very traumatic for everyone even the kids. No I see what I did differently and wouldn't do it the same way.
I can babble on and on about it... lol
Follow what feels right to you!! Hope things get better. It sucks to be in such situations.