I need answers...my bf and I don’t have the same relationship ever since I found out I was pregnant. I need to know if anyone has some advice or has experienced this also. It’s starting to make me feel very down.
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I get he may not be ready for this but hell I had no choice but to get myself ready. Just kinda wish he would see how this is overwhelming for me, but trying to talk and not get emotional is hard right now...damn hormones!
@firsttimemom06, I would just give it time and eventually hopefully he’ll warm up and then you guys can get back to how you used to treat each other again for yourselves mainly but for that baby too
@mommysaurusx6, I’ve started to distance myself from him slightly b.c I don’t want to be overwhelming and stress him or me out.
your sexuality with him has nothing to do with it. men go through lots of emotions during this time just like women do. maybe you can ask to make a couple days "no devices" and pick out some games or movies to do together. or go out for an activity. he also just may not be as interested as you want him to be and as upsetting as that is, it happens. he might just be trying to enjoy his last months as a free man 😅 you should def have a talk with him but as non accusitive as possible
@firsttimemom06 I'd say go to dinner (in public hes forced to talk with you politely pay more attention to you) and ask him straight up what he wants from the relationship. if he wants you, wants to be a father, or neither.
@kambam, he has already been asked those questions. He’s told me he wants to be a part of my life and he wants us to be a family. Actions aren’t matching at all and my patience is running thin.
@firsttimemom06 I feel you. it's too stressful during pregnancy to have to worry about what your partner is up to 😔
Have you been giving him the same amount of attention. Sexually.
Yeah but it just seems he’s into his friends and videos games more than me and this pregnancy.
Honestly I would just ask him about it. It’s a bit overwhelming for us as women to find out that we are pregnant whether we were planning on it or not but he may be feeling overwhelming too and seeing it as more stuff he has to take care of and have more money for. He also may just not be ready for it.