Planning on another baby...?

So for my first time moms when do you plan on having your second child?

Ok ladies! My son was planned! Were your children planned? How long did you try?

LOOKING FOR HONEST OPINIONS!!!

My baby shower was planned for 10/4 but Hurricane Matthew ruined those plans. So my baby shower got rescheduled to this coming Sunday. It's a month later than planned, and I'm looking for honest opinions on my dress and how it fits. Two additional pics in comments.

Not due til September and my mom is already planning my baby shower😩😩😩

Birth Plan Rant

I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?