Kayla
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Kayla·Мама троих детей

So ladies, I had my 3rd daughter last year via c section 2/14/18 & at the same time had my tubal ligation done. Since then I've regretted it because of course I want another baby, but just one more. I've considered both reversal or IVF & my husband is supportive either way 100% but I'm in between because I already have 3 girls & I feel like they need me to just focus on them. I just need some advice should I really be considering having another baby? Honestly the cost of either is outrageous so I wonder if it's more of just a dream to my husband then him taking it into serious consideration anyway. Opinions?

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og.damn.it.red

We considered paying out the 6 grand for the reversal but eh I like my money too much so we decided not to. I had my tubal around 8 ish years ago.

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scruffy.nerf.herder
Heather·Мама сына (7 лет)

I have a friend who’s husband had a vasectomy before they met, and she wanted to have a child, so they paid for his vasectomy reversal and then paid for IUI when that didn’t work. She never did end up pregnant, and it cost them so much, both financially and emotionally. It was hard seeing her devastation each month when she wasn’t pregnant.

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ksmommyx3
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ·Мама двоих (2 года, 12 лет)

Personally I wouldn’t do it.the cost is not worth the “maybe” being able to conceive another child. You have 3 littles that need your attention. Also, me being all all girl mom too, would def NOT risk having a 4th girl, I’m scared to have a 3rd and it’s another girl 😂😂🤷🏾‍♀️

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leowifey

That's a really personal decision. Is the cost worth the chance that you might be able to add another child to your family? Might - because it's still not a guarantee of success.

Personally it wouldn't be worth it to me. I've made up my mind that if we actually do want another kiddo after "the snip" that we'd look into adoption instead (also not cheap).

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