So ladies, I had my 3rd daughter last year via c section 2/14/18 & at the same time had my tubal ligation done. Since then I've regretted it because of course I want another baby, but just one more. I've considered both reversal or IVF & my husband is supportive either way 100% but I'm in between because I already have 3 girls & I feel like they need me to just focus on them. I just need some advice should I really be considering having another baby? Honestly the cost of either is outrageous so I wonder if it's more of just a dream to my husband then him taking it into serious consideration anyway. Opinions?
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I have a friend who’s husband had a vasectomy before they met, and she wanted to have a child, so they paid for his vasectomy reversal and then paid for IUI when that didn’t work. She never did end up pregnant, and it cost them so much, both financially and emotionally. It was hard seeing her devastation each month when she wasn’t pregnant.
Personally I wouldn’t do it.the cost is not worth the “maybe” being able to conceive another child. You have 3 littles that need your attention. Also, me being all all girl mom too, would def NOT risk having a 4th girl, I’m scared to have a 3rd and it’s another girl 😂😂🤷🏾♀️
That's a really personal decision. Is the cost worth the chance that you might be able to add another child to your family? Might - because it's still not a guarantee of success.
Personally it wouldn't be worth it to me. I've made up my mind that if we actually do want another kiddo after "the snip" that we'd look into adoption instead (also not cheap).
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I know I've posted this before but when your water was leaking did it stay leaking or just with movements or what? Did you get contractions shortly after or no? I rolled out of bed and felt warmth leak out but Idk if it was possibly urine or what...never had it happen. It didn't smell like anything really...I know I should either call l&d or go in but I just want some experiences please. I want to wait a bit just in case it's nothing.
I need some advice! I just had my son a little over a month ago and I want to wait 5-10 years to have another baby. Is a age gap a bad thing?
We considered paying out the 6 grand for the reversal but eh I like my money too much so we decided not to. I had my tubal around 8 ish years ago.