Would you go to your sisters baby shower even though she never told you she was pregnant??

I was never told I was going to be an aunt...

Well you obviously know she is. So she likely didn’t feel the need to announce directly to you especially if y’all have no relationship. Again, at end of day it’s not about you. It’s not about her. Or your mom playing favorites. It’s about your niece or nephew.

@loving_the_mommy_life, then maybe that’s why you and your sister aren’t close.

Honestly, it’s not your sister’s fault your mom plays favorites. I would try to make the effort to have a relationship. From what it sounds like in this post, you play a very passive role in your relationship with your sister. If you want one (which I imagine you do- otherwise you wouldn’t make this post if you didn’t care) you need to make the effort.

As far as your mom goes why don’t you ask her why she doesn’t make an effort for your boys. And if she continues to be this way, then you may want to consider not having her in your life for the sake of your boys

@phoebesmommy, I have tried many times and until this point no effort in her part....

@loving_the_mommy_life, well I mean, people only treat us crappy as long as we allow them. You don’t have to be a victim

Yes she just texted me to ask if I was going to be home on Saturday so she can bring me an invitation to her baby shower.... Yet when does she ever come over “never”....