Would you go to your sisters baby shower even though she never told you she was pregnant??
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If I got invited by her yes I'd still go if not then probably no idea just send a card n gift.
I didn't tell my family about 7/8 of my pregnancies. Mostly because even when I was in "the safe zone" I didn't feel like it was the safe zone. She obviously wants you there. It doesn't matter whether or not she told you. We're not obligated to tell anyone but the father imo. It's not about you. It's about that baby.
It’s not about you.... she may have her reasons for not telling you and that’s her prerogative. I wouldn’t take it so personally
Surely there’s some kind of backstory to this. But yes, at the end of the day the baby shower is to celebrate the life of your niece or nephew.
I was never told I was going to be an aunt...
Well you obviously know she is. So she likely didn’t feel the need to announce directly to you especially if y’all have no relationship. Again, at end of day it’s not about you. It’s not about her. Or your mom playing favorites. It’s about your niece or nephew.
I probably would because it’s family. I’d be upset and let her know I was upset. I’d still go though. Why didn’t she tell you? Are you guys not close? That makes a difference too.
@loving_the_mommy_life, then maybe that’s why you and your sister aren’t close.
Honestly, it’s not your sister’s fault your mom plays favorites. I would try to make the effort to have a relationship. From what it sounds like in this post, you play a very passive role in your relationship with your sister. If you want one (which I imagine you do- otherwise you wouldn’t make this post if you didn’t care) you need to make the effort.
As far as your mom goes why don’t you ask her why she doesn’t make an effort for your boys. And if she continues to be this way, then you may want to consider not having her in your life for the sake of your boys
@phoebesmommy, I have tried many times and until this point no effort in her part....
@loving_the_mommy_life, well I mean, people only treat us crappy as long as we allow them. You don’t have to be a victim
How did you get invited? From her? Yes, from word of mouth, no.
Yes she just texted me to ask if I was going to be home on Saturday so she can bring me an invitation to her baby shower.... Yet when does she ever come over “never”....
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