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Мама четверых детей

I am literally considering selling everything I own just so I can pay my car payment. I’m not getting any child support…

I am literally considering selling everything I own just so I can pay my car payment. I’m not getting any child support for any of my kids and I’m without job because I can’t afford a daycare or sitter and no one can help watch my kids. I’m so stressed out idk what to do anymore.

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eatmyassfromtheback-kthanks

SistersmainpieceМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

Have you applied for child support and they just haven’t paid? If you haven’t applied, apply. It’s every parents responsibility to provide financially for their child and it’s every child’s right to receive that financial support. It’s definitely not depending on a man like the above stated, it’s called holding a man to his responsibilities to his child and holding them accountable while you do your part.

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juliam27

JuliaМама четверых детей

Just doesn’t want to pay child support and I’ve been calling and calling and the attorney general just isn’t any help. They have been very rude to me

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eatmyassfromtheback-kthanks

SistersmainpieceМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

@juliam27, is the order through child support enforcement or with the courts?

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jeslaine64

Jeslaine NevarezМама дочки (1 год)

If you enroll into a community college they will watch your children while the hours you are in class you should be able to better yourself for your kids don't depend on a man who's not going to send you money I'm not judging or being rude I just think it's a good option

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eatmyassfromtheback-kthanks

SistersmainpieceМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

Also, look into newspaper routes in your area. Again you can bring the kids.

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eatmyassfromtheback-kthanks

SistersmainpieceМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

Sign up for door dash and post mates. You can bring your kids with you. Fast, easy good money.

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juliam27

JuliaМама четверых детей

I live in a very small town someone has already tried it and it didn’t workout

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eatmyassfromtheback-kthanks

SistersmainpieceМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

@juliam27, drive to another city over? Where I live I’m surrounded by other cities and drive to them when it’s slow where one at.

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juliam27

JuliaМама четверых детей

@sistersmainpiece, it’s almost 2 hours away. I live in a small west Texas town

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boymama523

Bye

Sell your car! Get out from under it. Take Dave Ramsey’s financial peace university course, you’ll learn so much, I did! The car you can’t afford is holding you back.

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boymama523

Bye

@boymama523, Also check care.com for a sweet nanny or babysitter. You can get better quality one on one care for cheaper! I was a nanny for years and loved those kids like they were mine.

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boymama523

Bye

@boymama523, or to make it even sweeter. That can be your job, nannying and caring for your own at the same time! Win win- you don’t have to pay for child care and you’re making money at the same time. Lots of stay at home moms do this. You can do it full time if you wanted

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juliam27

JuliaМама четверых детей

@boymama523, it is technically not mine to sell it’s not under my name it’s under my moms name. I’m making the payments under her name and this is only the second payment I can’t make because I lost my job.

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ogmamataytay

TayTayМногодетная мама (10 детей)

You welfare services in your town Dont supply free daycare?

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juliam27

JuliaМама четверых детей

I have to have a job first or they can’t help and we only have 2 daycares and they are both full

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I’m Military mommy of 6 with baby girl due Nov 7, I’m from Cali but currently stationed in Ohio

I’m Military mommy of 6 with baby girl due Nov 7, I’m from Cali but currently stationed in Ohio I know someone stole my identity that’s the only reason I’m on here ... and I am in the Army I’m AGR I work at a reserve center in Monclova and my husbands a recruiter please see the attached profile please block her/his asss This is crazy !!! I was informed they were doing this on my instagram @honniifitz this is the real me 🤬🙄I’m so irritated sorry everyone for what this person has been doing I have reported them if you can please do the same I can verify I’m the Real SGT Fitzgerald #myfirstpost

Any mommas having issues with their 3 year olds not sleeping ?? Took my kiddo to the doctor and his doctor recommended I…

Any mommas having issues with their 3 year olds not sleeping ?? Took my kiddo to the doctor and his doctor recommended I get him Melatonin So I did I started with 1mg and it did nothing So I got him 3mg still nothing Got him 5mg nothing So today I bought him 10mg I hope it works This kid can go the whole night without sleeping and no naps throughout the day I’m one exhausted momma