I NEED HELP how do you pregnant mommies relieve stress because I'm on the way to smoking again and I really don't want to
If it’s weed deff don’t do it. They’ll know from the baby, don’t get caught up girl. And cigs still ain’t that good either. They showed up right before I left the hospital because they seen in my chart I smoked weed but the baby came out clean because I stopped when I found out, so they couldn’t do shit. But you’re so far along I wouldn’t risk it.
I always get the urge to do it but I never do because I tell myself I love my baby and I don't want to hurt him in any way
@tyneziah, I did too. My last 2 pregnancies I wanted too also. I just dealt with the bs and after I had them I still waited a while until I smoked again. It’s hard being stress angry mad and dealing with children while pregnant. Do you have a schedule at all for your kids??
@sabi.bishh I would have to wait awhile because I plan on breastfeeding and I only have one my daughter but she isn't a problem it's just stress with life things and not being able to do what I need to or buy what I need to
Stress relief is different for everyone, but a few things I do: speak to someone (vent), take a long walk, exercise, get out and do something different (change of environment and from things or people stressing me)
Thank you lol I don't have friends or really family so no one to vent to and I'm not really a in shape person so walking I can't do and i have no way of changing the environment I'm in right now or getting away when I do I feel free and ok until I have to come back and everything feels the same

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Oddly enough I clean lol when I’m stressed and pissed I clean like a psycho. I think it helps me feel like I’m back in control.. after a little while I normally calm down.