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Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

Idc if its an addiction or being depressed or something else. If you arent getting help, stop making it your excuse and…

Idc if its an addiction or being depressed or something else. If you arent getting help, stop making it your excuse and doing absolutely nothing about it. Get help and live better. Dont need to drag people around and then when they speak up and say enough is enough. You're ready to play a victim and blame others for your issues that you arent even getting help for, on the situation at hand.

Im sorry, but if that makes me "mean" and uncaring. I don't know what to say. Never thought i was a mean person. But i guess it'll look that way to some people.

Am i wrong for feeling this way?

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mychemicalshaymance

ShayМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

Yes. Straight point blank. It is not as black and white as you see it. Don't struggle with it? Don't speak on it.

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He has other undesirable traits besides this. I think it’s time to tell him to hit the road...

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kellyjc

KellyjcМама двоих (3 года, 16 лет)

sometimes the help ppl get doesn't "help" especially with depression just something to think about

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anicole3285

AmandaМама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

Talking about your depression to a therapist or someone like that does. Usually i should say. Talking about it does wonders. I knkw its hard to get started because opening up to a complete stranger is hard. Even nkt a stranger. Talking is hard.

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kellyjc

KellyjcМама двоих (3 года, 16 лет)

@anicole3285 don't want to argue with you but u stree dead wrong talking isn't a cure for mental illness. you put up a blanket statement specifically about depression not one person's struggle I work in the mental health field for the past 20 years and nobody with mental health issues wants it to stay the same. I have watched ppl do everything thing they could to get help in every way possible and it doesn't help the isn't an on and off switch and while some people get relief of symptoms they still struggle and other never get that relief

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anicole3285

AmandaМама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

@kellyjc i didn't say there was a cure. Where did you see i said that. And since you work in the mental health field youd know for a lot of people talking HELPS. Not cure. Read the word helps. And youd be a little more aware and knowledgeable. Hopefully anyways

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trina.angel

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I agree in a way, but keep in mind mental illness like depression isn’t something you can write a prescription for and be cured, you can help the “symptoms” but it’s an ongoing battle with yourself. I would understand if it was alcoholism or drug use though.

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Cams Мама троих детей

He has other undesirable traits besides this. I think it’s time to tell him to hit the road...

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anicole3285

AmandaМама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

How so. This is the main root of the problem.

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@anicole3285, he takes your money without asking/lies about it when you have other bills to pay, doesn’t treat your son the best, tries to pressure you into things (giving kids his last name.) These are only a few examples. You complain about him constantly. I just don’t understand why you would want to be with someone like that. Don’t you value yourself? Surely, you know you deserve better?

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del_1566405773_justhappy2019

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I agree! At some point enough is enough and action should be taken. It’s not being insensitive, it’s having a proactive mindset. People can’t continuously blame others and never take action on their end. If you do the same things over and over, you can’t expect a different outcome! I know from experience! You have to take responsibility of your life and move forward no matter the situation :)

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anicole3285

AmandaМама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

Especially if its years years and years..... And in denial but agree with you at the same time. Its confusing and etc. Thank you for understanding

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This is very ignorant. Are you speaking about your partner?

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mychemicalshaymance

ShayМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

@anicole3285 whatever you say miss judgemental. And btw since you're either too ignorant to comprehend where it's everyone. It's legit the first sentence.

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anicole3285

AmandaМама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

@mychemicalshaymance ✌✌🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦

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deleted836516828583_

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@anicole3285, do you know the definition of ignorant? A lot of people think it means their being called stupid. Which it’s not.

You literally asked if you were wrong for feeling this way. Don’t get rude you when you get others opinions on a question YOU asked.

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mom2.4crotchhumans

Sara Andrea TaylorМама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Can't help someone who doesn't wanna be helped🤷

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michaelsmommy17

melissaМама сына (1 год)

It's not that easy...

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mychemicalshaymance

ShayМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

Yes. Straight point blank. It is not as black and white as you see it. Don't struggle with it? Don't speak on it.

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anicole3285

AmandaМама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

I do struggle with it. So i WILL speak on it

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mychemicalshaymance

ShayМама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)

@anicole3285 if you struggled with it you'd more than understand it and wouldn't even think like this

And is it you or is it your son who does. Because your comment below mentioned your son, not you.

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taylorsmommy

A.Мама дочки (1 год)

It’s not that easy to get help. I know from experience. You can tell someone to get help but when you literally can not get out of bed or go to the store without feeling like your dying how can you. If you can’t find the words to say I need help you won’t get it. Yes if you realize you need help you SHOULD just ask for help but if you can’t you just need a strong support system to help you while your down encouraging people not people that are gonna make you feel worse.

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anicole3285

AmandaМама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

They realize it. They just dont it. And they can get out of bed.

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anicole3285

AmandaМама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

When yeard and years and having THEM down me but yet blame others for their actions. Nah. Get help. Realize it. Tryed helping so many times. Tryed giving the benefit of the doubt and just let be even though the person is fully aware. And taking advantage countless times. Enough is enough. Like i said.

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bmarie727

BridgettМама троих детей

In a way.... sometimes that’s part of being depressed ...every situation is different u kno

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anicole3285

AmandaМама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

I agree every situation is different. Thats why i asked

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I see we have people that just live for drama on this app smh!!! you can criticised people but when people bring you…

I see we have people that just live for drama on this app smh!!! you can criticised people but when people bring you facts to the table you wanna say "but who asked you" ....if you're wrong you're wrong... shyt I learn stuff everyday!!!!.. if you don't want true feedback this is not the app for you!! I'm not agreeing with you to make friends! get a life