My 7yr old has ODD/ADHD/SPD/ASD but his odd and spd are prominent, especially the odd . He’s been doing this “revenge pooping “ for the last 2 years . If he doesn’t get his way , rules are enforced, he’s redirected he will sit there and poop himself . Usually in public , completely humiliation! When asked why he did it he blames my husband and myself for not letting him do what he wants to do . He can not take any accountability for his behavior. He’s had numerous issues with going to school and hitting/punching other students and when asked he goes non verbal or passed of the blame to the other child that did nothing wrong . And yes , he has pooped himself in school and blamed us (we were irrelevant to the situation of why he pooped himself ) . Anyone else ever deal with this behavior?
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Yes he doesn’t like things (sticky or water ) on him , loud anything . His flapping is all
Day or when excited . He has asd .
@gorgeouschoas Wow.you must be dealing with so much with these challenges! You are strong girl! I really hope you find a solution soon. One more thing. There seems to be forums for everything now. Maybe you might find one for parents dealing with these disorders. Maybe they'll have similar challenges and solutions.
I have not. But I did want to ask how often he goes to therapy and what the therapist has suggested?
@divinely_favored, I’m not trying to embarrass him , buying underwear is just getting to expensive. On Sunday we all went out to my stepsons football games as a family . It was a great day with great weather . He asked to go to the bathroom and there was only one port a potty there . I said no to the port a potty (trying to prevent a melt down from his spd , we have relatives that live no less then a mile from the field so I said I could take him there ) my husband said no let’s go and took him to the portapotty he goes just fine . (Surprised me !) than later during on of the games he starts hopping around on his tippy toes and flapping his arms (making a specical of himself ) so he is asked to calm down and relax . He gives a irritated look and sits no longer than 15 minutes before all the games are done he poops himself .
@gorgeouschoas oh honey I'm not saying you are trying to embarass him. I just put that out there so no one would think I was suggesting deliberate embarrassment. But I do feel like older kids usually take pride in big boy things. So maybe if he starts losing some of those big boy things like real underwear he might knock it off. What do you think?
@divinely_favored, I’m going to suggest it to his bhc and I’m going to do it
I,actually have a child w odd/ ADHD and another with SPD and asd I've dealt with all of those behaviors except the pooping. Is he in any therapy's?
@gorgeouschoas might be the odd because my child w odd is just difficult imma be honest she's 12 and its impossible to even deal w her most days. Have u tried medicine?
@motherfirst10, not yet but I do have his therapy today so I can always ask
@gorgeouschoas yes I would. I've heard of it before. I'll look some stuff up for u
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Outrageous!
A 5 year old was detained and questioned at his school for taking a toy gun to show his friend. He was so scared he wet his pants and his parents weren't notified until 2 hours into the questioning. He was suspended for 10 days, but it was reduced to the 3 days he had already served after the parents and others complained. The school stated that the situation was handled appropriately and would be handled in a similar manner in the future.
Что делать, если учитель не даёт перерывы?
If Jr has an IEP & one of the things in it says he can take breaks as needed, but his teacher isn’t giving him the breaks he’s asking for what do I do? If I can do anything at all..
my nephew mom spoils him and his behavior is terrible and he’s very disrespectful & I discipline him because he’s 5 and that shxt will not be tolerated in my house!!! not to mention he constantly poops on himself!!!
Do any of you notice any odd behaviours with your toddlers? Charlie does things which to me looks odd or it just may be that I haven’t seen another child do it before, I’d show you a video but obviously I can’t do that on here... it’s like his whole body tenses up, he clenches his teeth and will do this weird thing with his hands. He will be three in June if that makes a difference?
Spd is sensory processing disorder? How does that affect him? Is the arm flapping a frequent occurrence? Any concerns about autism?