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so me and my biological father & his side I am not close with. He told me recently he wants to be in me & my child life now after YEARS. but disappears again. But if I tell him he can’t be in my child’s life because he not going to pick in choose when he wants to be around he’ll be upset! Am I wrong ?
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I did the same thing! It really messes with your head-- I know firsthand. I've never been happier or more stable without that nonsense out of my life.
I don’t know how to politely tell him that it’s in me and my child’s best interests if he wasn’t around 😭it hurts cause that’s my dad but it hurts how he was never there also
You are definitely not in the wrong! I did the same thing to my real mom and real dad! I didn’t want my kids confused or to get hurt
Thank you ! My step dad plays the role of my dad and will be my child’s grandfather when they are older I will eventually tell them about my real dad. But for now that’s their granddad.
@amareenakiaa, that’s exactly how I am. My adopted parents are the only ones that they really know. They see my real mom at my grandmas Christmas but they don’t really know her.
@amareenakiaa, you have to earn that right honey I'm the same way with my son and he's 4! You have to earn a spot in his life it won't be given to you!
@supermomsuperwife2019, I’m so glad someone sees it my way and doesn’t think I’m disrespectful
Why do people think it’s okay to toy with people emotions and pick and choose when to be around ? I definitely don’t want my little one experiencing the hurt I have.
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Not at all that’s ur rite as ya childs mother