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so me and my biological father & his side I am not close with. He told me recently he wants to be in me & my child life now after YEARS. but disappears again. But if I tell him he can’t be in my child’s life because he not going to pick in choose when he wants to be around he’ll be upset! Am I wrong ?
I did the same thing! It really messes with your head-- I know firsthand. I've never been happier or more stable without that nonsense out of my life.
I don’t know how to politely tell him that it’s in me and my child’s best interests if he wasn’t around 😭it hurts cause that’s my dad but it hurts how he was never there also
Candace HintonМногодетная мама (5 детей)
You are definitely not in the wrong! I did the same thing to my real mom and real dad! I didn’t want my kids confused or to get hurt
Thank you ! My step dad plays the role of my dad and will be my child’s grandfather when they are older I will eventually tell them about my real dad. But for now that’s their granddad.
Candace HintonМногодетная мама (5 детей)
@amareenakiaa, that’s exactly how I am. My adopted parents are the only ones that they really know. They see my real mom at my grandmas Christmas but they don’t really know her.
Tyshai James 😍😘😍😘Мама сына (3 года)
@amareenakiaa, you have to earn that right honey I'm the same way with my son and he's 4! You have to earn a spot in his life it won't be given to you!
@supermomsuperwife2019, I’m so glad someone sees it my way and doesn’t think I’m disrespectful
Why do people think it’s okay to toy with people emotions and pick and choose when to be around ? I definitely don’t want my little one experiencing the hurt I have.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀ Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was fine 🙄
I am so stressed right now!!! My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me. I feel like I should not see any at this point.
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Bridgett·Мама троих детей
Not at all that’s ur rite as ya childs mother
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