Am I making any sense by this ?! People that will bring negativity into my life will not be allow to be around my kids because they can keep that negativity to them selfs!!!
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I dont leave them around ppl who hate me or i hate! Idgaf who it is 🤔 n its not selfish its how can they disrespect me n expect to still be involved with my child.
I have a few family members that have not met my daughter and likely never will until they clean up their lives. I won’t keep them away over something petty or small but I’m also not going to expose them to some of the crap that goes on with them.
My mom wont ever be in both my sons life knew she went to jail bc she dont know how to stop stalking ppl but I believe she n my dad n brother dont deserves to see them my brothers a drug dealer n he has kids so I'm piss bout that n my dad is a liar so my in laws are the only support I get
@mama_bearof2, yeah I have an uncle and cousin that are heavily involved with drugs and there’s no way I’m exposing my kids to that
@bsr2016 my brother told me I'm not to see my niece or nephew so I respect that and I want that same bc my nephew now from them has down syndrome and my mom is druggie and both my parents have bad temper and they end up putting there ha da on each other but I'm the bad guy for doing what's right for my children
Its true. Not childish. They have to respect you as the mother or wby would theh be around your child. Dont know how they might act or say infront of your child.
I won’t let people that have ever threaten me around my kids. But if there are family members I don’t necessarily talk to but have a better relationship with my kids or in-laws that I don’t see eye to eye with but love kids I don’t keep my kids from them. Kids are innocent I set aside any beef for the sake of children.
If there was any beef then I’ll definitely go to resolve it but I don’t got beef with them !! I’m straight ❤️I just know they hating ass bitch they tAlk about every one Ik dam well they not going to stay quiet about me even if my kids are around.
Depends. I’m usually the petty one and won’t let my kids go no where. But who ever I’m arguing with is welcome to drop their kids off lmao.
Well i dont mix my kids in any of my problems i had a huge fight with my sister i hated her soo bad but when my nice wanted to come over i would go get her of drop my kids to my sister when they wanted to see her ( wouldn’t even talk to her) but in my head kids should never be involved in any of the parents problems
If it was parents/family problems only than of course I would let them be around my kids. But when I know you talking at the dinner table about my ass and my babies are on the floor sitting eating their food listening in... WHY would I want that for my best?! I’m the best mother I can be and i think a pretty good on but YALL NOT just going to talk about me BAD because y’all know I’m doing better than all them at that dinner table 😂 keep the negative energy away from my babies because I won’t allow them to grow up around hate or get influenced by that
@xomarylee, no thats for sure i dont want my kids somewhere were they would talk nasty about me
I think it depends.
Like if they're talking shit about you to/around your kids then yeah....
You aren't going to be around them.
I don't let my kids around that period. That's why they didn't start going to my mom's until after my step dad passed
@xomarylee
But as long as they aren't talking about you or putting their feelings into the kids then it shouldn't matter.
The kids shouldn't be involved.
Now if they're talking shit about you to the kids then THATS a problem. You shouldn't ignore his side of the family simply because they don't like you. As long as they don't spew that hatred into the kids.
@xomarylee, I agree with you. Especially if the ppl talk shit about you in front of the child. Happens a lot
You know what i have to agree with you my sons wont know there grandparents my parents bc they so toxic so bad and drama and it's bad enough my mom is in some deep stuff i dont need around my boys my dad can lose his temper pretty badly n hurt ppl so I agree with u at 100 dont ever put your child in a bad place bc ik mine wont be in that position my parents put me in that and they were not the best