My very toxic SIL that has hated me for years and removed herself from the family (literally told…
My very toxic SIL that has hated me for years and removed herself from the family (literally told everyone she didn’t want to be a party of the family anymore) randomly texts my husband that she wishes me a healthy pregnancy and delivery. She got engaged last month, and now she’s all of a sudden determined to come back in everyone’s lives. But why text my husband that? He’s not the one pushing a living human out of his body in a week.
Ally·
Dontcha just LOVE that. I have a lot of family like that. My sister mainly. We havnt talked in years (she is very unstable and isnt good around children and is dangerous) and when things get rough for her she reaches out to family. Shes burned all bridges. Lies. Steals. Cheats. Literally ruins peoples lives. But she will cry pitty bc i wont allow my kids to be around her.
Rina··
That’s horrible. She needs Jesus! Crazy
Ally··
yesss
Rina·
True! Maybe she changed. I say forgive her! Just so your husband can have his sister back in his life (Even though she was petty to remove herself)
HazelXoco ·
Мама сына (2 года)
Maybe she was going through a lot of negativity in the past . Might as well spread positivity over that .
Elizabeth Hebert·
There’s a ton of backstory here that would take ages to explain, but she’s not a healthy person mentally or emotionally, and needs to really prove herself to everyone that she’s getting help. In the 15 years that I’ve been with my husband, she’s only been “nice” for maybe a year total, in the very beginning. She’s a bipolar alcoholic who thinks that she’s a saint and everyone else is wrong in everything and has delusions of things that we’ve all done to wrong her, that never happened. Even if she is getting help, it’s going to take a long time for her to be trusted enough to be in my boys’ lives. My older one doesn’t even know who she is, and doesn’t ask about her in pictures. She hasn’t seen him since his first birthday party, when she showed up 20 minutes before it ended, hungover, then started drinking games and threw a tantrum when people didn’t want to play with her
RSBiH06··
I would just ignore her! She’s going to have to prove herself a lot more than just a text.
Elizabeth Hebert··
exactly! And not just with him. Apparently I’m the only one she hasn’t reached out to at all, and I don’t expect it. Just means that she won’t be part of her nephews lives, and it’s her loss. They have 2 uncles and 2 other aunts, not including Gd parents that love him more than anything, so they’re not lacking in extended family
Amanda·
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
Maybe she was in a low depression. Love can make you change in the best ways. And isnt that her brother. If shes your sister in law
Elizabeth Hebert··
She has a lot of other issues. Not depression. She’s a bipolar alcoholic with delusions of things other people have done to her that never happened. She needs a lot more help than just love, unfortunately
Amanda··
Мама двоих (1 год, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
well like insaid love can chamge you in the best ways. Maybe now she has Love, she will want to get help. If she hasnt already. Or maybe she ju2wants her family at her wedding. Who knows
Melissa ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
That may be true and no one is saying to just let her into your life. But sometimes the biggest help is to shine the light of love and compassion especially to someone who may not deserve it.
Melissa ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Maybe she didn't think it'd be received well by you.
Leslie Williams (alias)·
It’s never the wrong time to do the right thing.