I really wish I wasn't so scared to put my daughter in daycare. I miss work so much. My husband was…
I really wish I wasn't so scared to put my daughter in daycare. I miss work so much. My husband was off for 3 days and I worked those days and it felt great. Honestly didnt even miss my daughter. I may hate getting up early but I hate staring at the walls more. Like I'm just lying here right now just doing nothin! And the quietness ugh! Lol
Victoria ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I wanna work but my husband works 2-1030pm and gets home at 11.. and has Thursday and Friday off. Where were u able to get a job if you don’t mind me asking
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I've always had a job but ever since having my daughter I haven't gone back full time. At first I was staying home because my husband works 7a-7p, but then it got really boring, tiring and depressing for me. He would also sometimes work weekends, but after a long talk we decided I'd work every other weekend so we can both be with her but I still feel like it's not enough
Victoria ··
Мама дочки (1 год)
what kind of job is it that you are able to work every other week. I would live to do that at least
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I'm an LPN but I work through an agency so I can basically work whenever I want
Kimberly·
Мама троих детей
I wasn’t scared to put my kids in daycare more so I didn’t want to miss out on stuff with them. My youngest goes 2 sometimes 3 days a week and she loves it and work just in those days. Could that be an option for you? Xx
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Honestly, no not until she can talk. I worked at a daycare before which is why I'm scared. The daycare I worked at is no longer running because of what I've seen. I even had to call the state behind the owners back
Kimberly·
Мама троих детей
Oh that’s sad to hear! I can understand why you wouldn’t rush to send her then xx
Nicole·
It scary but so is your mental state! Being a Sahm isn’t for anyone. I am sure there is a good reputable daycare around you, you just have to keep looking. Perhaps try one that has cameras that you are able to view at anytime or somewhere with good reviews? Not sure.. just something to think about.
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Yes! I felt my self slowly becoming depressed. I've never thought about looking for daycares with cameras because my mind was so against it but that's a really good idea
Nicole·
Yeah girl just be super open I know shes your baby but you have to be healthy and in a good state to be the best mother you can! And dont feel guilty for leaving her or feel like your “missing out” lol being a working mom is Great! Take it from me who I stayed home with my oldest for the year then started working but I didnt stay home by choice lol and with my youngest I went back to work right after she turned 6 weeks and I love it lol she is super happy and so am I.
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Trust me if I hadn't witnessed some of the things I saw I would've went straight back to work. I'll always worry about the missing out part but it wouldn't have stopped me from going back lol. I feel like when I find the right one my heart will know. I took her to one and left her for an hr to see how she likes it and she did fine, but in the back of my mind I just can't