So I'm 26 weeks this week. My boyfriend wants me to stop working and for him to work all day now.…
So I'm 26 weeks this week.
My boyfriend wants me to stop working and for him to work all day now. Idk about that..
My 6 year old daughter will be out of school so I'll be with her literally ALL DAY alone smh 🤦♀️ 😩
*update: let's clear this up.. I'm not complaining about spending time with my daughter smh 😂
I don't like being alone with her because I can't do all like I usually do with being pregnant. We play and have fun together with limitations but she deserves to have time to do other activities and interact with others on a different level as well. My amazing boyfriend usually steps in where I'm lacking right now and school helps with the social component. I'll try and do my best to get her out and all of course, but it's summer and I'm in my third trimester almost. I'm slowing down😩😪🤦♀️
Nothere·
I’m a stay at home too and sometimes I feel like I don’t interact with adults 😂😭
Rese··
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
@yesica, yeah. They talk your head off!!! Lmao 😂
Nothere··
I’m waiting for the stage where they go like “mom, Mami, mother, mama,” “can I get this, how about this”
Rese··
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
@yesica, yeahhhh.... Just wait! 🤣. Let's talk in 5 years. See if you feel the same way lmao
Thekingsdaughter·
Sounds like fun to me!!
Rese··
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
oh cool! I'm a personal trainer as well. I'm just not currently training after relocating and not starting my business up in this market (smaller market)
What I mean is you do SOMETHING that gives you a mental break Lol
I may look into training here even though it means like less than half of what I was charging 😂. Just to do something
Thekingsdaughter··
that a great option! It would at least give you an outlet. The market is so flooded right now. Everyone and their brother is a pt🤦🏼♀️ i have my degree because I wanted to have an edge. That’s something worth checking into also
Rese··
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
yeah. And where I live now is so low income (in my opinion) people are cheap Lol they don't care about their fitness 🤦♀️. Degree in what? I already hold a bachelors (in engineering/ mathematics) so I'd have to pay to get another degree which... Hmm... Idk Lol
Mandy·
If you can afford it I would do it. It gives you some time to bond before the new baby comes
Rese··
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
Yeah, don't get me wrong. I love my daughter. And I stress bonding with her more now than ever for that very reason. BUT all day alone is a lot. Lol I could tolerate a newborn now being pregnant rather than a 6 year old. Its exhausting lmao 🤣
BunsInMyOven·
It’s your daughter.... who else would be with her??
Rese··
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
@scx, yeah because it's true 👏. Trolls just want to make it seem like you're being a bad parent or something because you say something about being away from your kid lmao
My daughter isn't a little infant / toddler anymore. I can't just smother her😂. As much as I'd love to say i can, i can't give her all that she needs anymore... That stopped when she came off of the nipple. Lol She has to experience life and learn and grow. We have our limitations and boundaries, we know our goals and lifestyle, and our bond is amazing! That's all that matters.
Shay··
not a troll, just asked a simple question.
Rese··
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
my apologies then. It wasn't your question that was of concern, it was your assumption that I don't and won't have appropriate time with my daughter that seemed amiss.
Amy O.·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I totally get it 😂. I would do it, but enroll her in a summer camp. Churches usually have a free vacation bible school open to non-members, you could check out your local rec center for affordable options as well. She would probably love it and it would give you a break. She’s at the age where she can tell you if somethings not right, so that would give peace of mind. Of course there are tons of other summer options, just depending on budget. The libraries by me have summer programs, you would still need to be there with her, but it would be an activity where she was with her peers.
Rese··
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
Yeah I will probably see what activities (indoors as much as possible Lol) that we can do together anyways. Try and not stay in the house as much.
Linley ·
I work in education and have the whole summer off. My daughter still asked to go to summer camp for a couple of weeks, and I said absolutely! Its not like I didn’t want to be around her or she didn’t want to be around me or her little sister. She just wanted to do something fun for kids her age, and it is good for children to continue to have that structure and interaction with other children their age over the summer.
Rese··
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
Yes exactly! Especially as they age. After age 1 they should be doing something engaging with others.. Even if it's a couple days a week. People just want to make it seem as if you're supposed to smother your kids (they may call it being "caring" or "cautious" Lol) and you're a bad parent if you mention your kid being away from you smh 😂
Linley ··
I’ve always thought it’s about the quality of time you spend with your kids, not the quantity. They will remember all of the good memories and how your relationship was, not if you spent all day everyday with them or not.
Rese··
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
exactly! Memories are what matters in all relationships. You can't help the fact that you won't spend all day everyday with your kids.
Amber Jacq ·
I’d jump at that offer
Rese··
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (27 нед.)
Some people like it, some don't. I'm not one to be able to sit at home. I get bored and feel lazy lmao