Any tips to help my older son like his baby brother ? He seems to be ok with him and like him if I’m not around but if I am which is always the case he doesn’t . He tells me to put him down , cries if I’m taking care of him and doesnt want to go near me if I’m tending to the baby .
It’s a hard adjustment for them especially going from the only one getting attention to now having to share. I would try and set some tone aside for just him. Read a book together, play toys, have a mommy and me lunch date. My oldest went through this too!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

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Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
I got my involved as much as I could with him so if I was feeding the baby I would talk to my older one about and ask if he would come sit down and help burp him. Or oh no he cry what should we do, should we play with him? That way he know you still want to hang with him but his brother need mommy and his brother.