I have a 2 1/2 yr old, a 1 yr old and a three month. People were definitely judge but it’s none of their business. I wanted to get all my babies out of the way and stop being pregnant already lol
And my first two play with each other all the time and keep each other busy, so we can focus on the little one a bit. I love having them so close together. It’s really what you think you can handle and what your vision is. I didn’t want a big gap in between all my babies so it was perfect.

And who cares what others think! If you can take care of your family, what others think should not matter.

I don’t think anyone is ever “ready.” We just adapt to our new normal! I have two just under a year apart. And now I will have almost 3 years in between my youngest and this baby. Sometimes I wonder if closer together is a bit nicer bc while it’s intensive for a few more months, you don’t have to start over every time.
If you and your husband want to try, why not? Children are a blessing! If I could skip the pregnancy part or make it shorter, I’m pretty sure we’d have a lot more kids. Maybe not 🤣

My little girl is 4 1/2 months old and I'll be 8 weeks tomorrow !! I could care less what anyone thinks as they arent the ones that are feeding, diapering and taking care of my children. It's your life, your choices to make , do YOU !! Good luck !! If it's what makes YOU and hubby happy, I say go for it !! No doubt, it'll be hard, but life is such !!

I found out I was pregnant with my second when my oldest was 10 months old. His family was super excited mine were like “already, again” but whatever first week was hard until kaysen got used to him and we got on a routine and now there monsters teaming up against me😂😂 there super close and I love that I had them close together now.
If you can mentally handle it and finically afford it than go for it.
Who cares what others think as long as you can handle it

I think you have to mentally prepare yourself to be doing double like having twins lol
I know I wouldn't be able to handle that I would go insane I want one more kid but in 3 years
But this will be my first girl so a lot of ppl are saying I will change my mind lol

I have 3 and another one on the way. The first week of bringing my youngest home was pretty chaotic. I think once you get on a routine it definitely gets easier. Trying to do things in between feedings and naps for your other kids, husband and just trying to get the house clean up could take you all day. Once your baby can start holding its own bottle it really helps a lot. Some of my family were happy about my 3rd pregnancy and some said that I’m too fertile, that they hope I get my boy so I can quit having kids. It was upsetting and made me scared to announce I was pregnant again so soon after having my 3rd. They haven’t really said anything rude because we haven’t seen most of the family since Christmas so all they said was congrats on fb. I don’t really care anymore they can think what they want. They’re not the ones giving birth to them and being at their side 24/7.

I have 3. All almost 2 years apart. That is even too close, IMO. I can’t imagine less than that. It’s a circus everyday 😅

If you can handle it go for it. Just know more kids means less time for “me time “ & romance. Believe me I have 4 kids under age 6 and now 34 weeks pregnant. My husband works so so much to provide &we don’t get to see him until after 9pm sometimes 11pm (he’s a sales manager at car dealerships Nissan ) so I can stay home with our kids. We haven’t had a date in like 2 years

I personally have a almost 3 year old and a almost 7 month old son and just found out I’m due in January!

DONT....DO.....IT