So I had a fourth degree tear and I am terrified of going through that again
So I had a fourth degree tear and I am terrified of going through that again
So I had a fourth degree tear and I am terrified of going through that again
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Buneeh ·
Wow 4th degree? I’m scared of any degree. I’m pregnant with my first and not sure what to expect during L&D. Were you on an epidural when your tear happened?
MariaAnastasiaa··
Мама троих детей
No I wasn’t just as the doctor came in to do my epidural the nurse checked me before he could do it and I was 10 centimeters dilated so I couldn’t get it I had to push and he came out sideways
MariaAnastasiaa··
Мама троих детей
I couldn’t do anything for two months
Buneeh ··
🤭😧😓🥺 you’re one tough chic to have survived that.
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
all births are different. you might not tear again or just a little. but since you had a 4th degree you may want to research perineal massage
MariaAnastasiaa··
Мама троих детей
I didn’t tear this time around when I had our daughter and I had her in the car so I’m hoping I dont this time around
kammy··
Мама сына (2 года)
oh ok see! 😃 hope not but anything is better than a 4 lol
MariaAnastasiaa··
Мама троих детей
Literally ANYTHING lol
Gdjjdkd·
I had 3rd degree with my first and is horrible and second degree with my youngest is horrible sorry mama you went thru that me too I was terrified the second time good luck.
MariaAnastasiaa··
Мама троих детей
I am sooooo terrified I’ll have to have a talk with baby while in labor lol
west side~momma·
I had a 4th degree my first due to forceps but my second I didn’t tear.
Jami·
And I thought a second degree tear was bad 😨 with my first I tore second degree. And my second, basically 9lbs baby, tore me in 3 spots. 1st degree perineal. Somewhere close to my urethra, and I think they said on the right side, of the vagina, maybe a bit inside? Not sure. But I healed so fast with about no pain with my second. My first, my vag hurt for like 3 months
Kristen ·
Мама троих детей
I had a 3rd degree tear. I was terrified to wash or do anything. Kept ice pack down there and it was awful.
scream.queen·
I had a 2nd degree tear with my first and my second I only tore enough to have 1 stitch.