Just seen this post and the level of ignorance is crazy 🙄🙄😪 there are so many boyfriends that step up and become great male, even father figures the girlfriends babies!! These babies are gone because of irresponsible people left these babies with the wrong people. Be careful who you let be around you’re baby EVEN if your around at the moment!!
Maleah is gone because child services failed her. And I agree this posy is ignorant. I can leave my kids w my husband for a year and know my kids fine. Or I wouldn't of had kids w him or married him. Not all moms r dumb and irresponsible
I agrees with that but at the same time I wouldn’t of left my baby with someone that was hurting her. Idc when the system says that ignorance it self and if go to jail to protect whats mine but i wouldn’t never handed my daughter back to abusers 🤷🏼♀️
I,understand too. But the child services knew she was still with him so obviously she Dont care aboutnher child. Child services should of never gave her back. And I feel mom should get charged also. She left him with her baby and she knew he hurt her she had to,get like 5 brains surgery's from head injury and yet child services still gave her back even when the surgery's wasn't done.
@taytay415, that’s what I’m saying idc what the system said I have to do ... I would of never gave her back EVER!! Idc if I get arrested😂 that my kids life! I’d do anything to make sure they never touched my kids
I wouldn’t leave my child with my “boyfriend” and I would hope her father wouldn’t leave her with his “girlfriend” we don’t even leave her with family. You can’t trust anyone sorry not sorry I barely even left her with her father when she came home 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I always think if the parents break up there should be evaluations made of the parents. Because if I have doubts in someone around me I would definitely not let my babies around them
and let me add my moms boyfriend I consider him my stepdad but even then my mom never left us unattended with him and they have been together since I was a kid. He’s a great man he’s never done anything to me but my mom also never left us alone not saying he would do anything but still. I wouldn’t put my child in a situation where something might possibly happen better safe then sorry.
well defiantly if I have doubt about them she wouldn’t be around that person no matter who they are
Can’t trust these “boyfriends” nowadays. A lot of women have been just leaving them thinking they’ll be safe but people have other intentions. It’s too many cases like this.
I agree you can’t trust anyone but I he point of the post was ignorant because like i said many boyfriends step up and do right.. even better than most father and I just thought the person that posted that mind is so closed up.
That's sad. I had a bestfriend who had kids with her husband. We knew him sense high school and she had 2 kids with him and they were married. Come to find out he molested her oldest daughter and he babysit all the time. Point is you just don't know about people anymore. He wasn't just a boyfriend he was her husband for years and I trusted him as well. But if I had a boyfriend he wouldn't be watching my kids till I knew for a fact he could be trusted and that might be never lol. I don't have to worry though been with my bow for 12yrs and we have kids together. Some females though be dating someone for a few weeks them leave their kids with them. Hell no.
that’s exactly me!! My mom grandma and one of his aunts not even HIS mom or grandma .. they love than and can be around but they don’t care enough and will hand them over when they start to cry 😂😂 his aunt will even take them while I sleep to help me out and I love her
yea my hubs mom I wouldn't let either and one of my grandmas drink too much so she can't watch them either lol
I agree with the post and I am far from ignorant. 🤷🏾♀️ I think a lot of women get too comfortable with putting men, who are not their child's biological fathers, around their children. Just because a man can be trusted in your relationship doesn't mean he should be trusted around your children. There should be a rather lengthy and elaborate process going on, before even considering allowing another man to babysit your child or children.
Yes!! Even people that have raised i will always be cautious of my kids no matter what.
I leave my son with my boyfriend but that’s because that’s his dad so I’m pretty comfortable with leaving my son with his own dad
Same ❤️ my babies love daddy probably more than me 😂😂 they get so excited with him not me! That how you know kids are being loved and cared for the right way. At the moment I see detachment and/or my babies act weird around them that’s when I’m going to start doubting what’s up. But until then I love him and I know both my babies love him more❤️
Can’t even post a cute picture without people criticizing 🙄
Damn I'll be around 40!!! :(
Why can't people just let others parent how they want to? I'm so over seeing people attack moms who choose not to vaccinate 🙄🙄🙄
I realized a lot of the people that judge on here don’t even have pics up! Lol so they just hide behind a phone or computer and judge others all day?? I’m sure y’all don’t live a perfect life 🙄
My friend got a small tattoo last week. It probably took less then 20 mins at the most!! And she’s 26weeks pregnant. She posted her new tattoo on fb and keep getting hate comments on being a horrible mom that doesn’t care if she’s pregnant. This is ridiculous!!! She deleted the post and people still are talking about it on Facebook. PEOPLE GETTING A TATTOO DOESNT AFFECT YOUR BABY AT ALL!! Especially when it’s below the knee and not anywhere near or around the belly... get this through your heads and stop shaming and disrespect a mom. Get your facts straight and even then mind your own dam business!!
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I wouldn’t leave my child with my “boyfriend” and I would hope her father wouldn’t leave her with his “girlfriend” we don’t even leave her with family. You can’t trust anyone sorry not sorry I barely even left her with her father when she came home 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Marylee Claudio ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Thats because your level of trust in them isn’t enough and there is nothing wrong with that. But dudes step up all the time and they need to be appreciated not told they can’t be trusted like this post I saw.
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I wouldn’t leave her with a boyfriend if I broke up with her father I just wouldn’t no matter how much I trust him I just wouldn’t. Yes their are some that step up but I’m sorry there are way more creeps in this world and I’m not only worried about someone killing my child but also molesting them and at that point it’s too late.
Marylee Claudio ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
I always think if the parents break up there should be evaluations made of the parents. Because if I have doubts in someone around me I would definitely not let my babies around them
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and let me add my moms boyfriend I consider him my stepdad but even then my mom never left us unattended with him and they have been together since I was a kid. He’s a great man he’s never done anything to me but my mom also never left us alone not saying he would do anything but still. I wouldn’t put my child in a situation where something might possibly happen better safe then sorry.
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well defiantly if I have doubt about them she wouldn’t be around that person no matter who they are
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I agree with the post and I am far from ignorant. 🤷🏾♀️ I think a lot of women get too comfortable with putting men, who are not their child's biological fathers, around their children. Just because a man can be trusted in your relationship doesn't mean he should be trusted around your children. There should be a rather lengthy and elaborate process going on, before even considering allowing another man to babysit your child or children.
Marylee Claudio ··
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yes!! Even people that have raised i will always be cautious of my kids no matter what.