Anyone else have a out of control child

Anyone have any ideas how to get her so she’s not so out of control she’s 8 n has been through what no child should....her father walked out of her life....n when she went to a family thing on her fathers side he got drunk n she got molested....so I know where a lot of her hurt is coming from....I just don’t know how to help her she sees a advocate n counselor in school n outside of school

Yes!!!!!

Yes and I'm at lost with him

She is really bad she’s bitting hitting kicks my washer throws herself on the floor tells ppl she hates them n wants them to die she has even said she wanted to die she takes off she took off 1 day I had to call the cops bc she was Mia for 2 hours her counselor gave me the number for fore winds

Yes mam