Ladies with babies 11-12 months apart, what is it like to have them so close?xx
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Mine r 12months apart, & don't av any more so I don't know what it's like to have a age gap but it's been the best thing I could of done is having them so close together. It's hard at times when they can both need attention but the older one learns that the new baba does too at first I couldn't feed him without him wanting his bottle just lil things like that but they get over it. Also no jealousy when the new baby does come, and when ye on ye own n ye have t get them both up the stairs can be difficult aswel but you find your ways if ur wanting another go for it you won't regret xx
Thank you hun, we already went for it and I'm 6 wks pregnant 🤣 xx
@mummymir awww wow congratulations to you all 🤗, honestly what your feeling will pass and then ye feel stupid for ever feeling the way ye did specially when you see the bond they have. Xx
My kids are 10months apart get on so well but always fight for 🤣
🤣🤣 my eldest and middle arent close in age and have their moments too!
@zainab.1995 @chelsea2018 that's really reassuring! We really wanted this baby close in age with our 4m/o but i cant help but feel guilty towards him? Did you feel like that, or am I just being ridiculous!xx
@chelsea2018 its horrible feeling like it, as soon as the tests came back positive (as much as I really wanted them to be) i felt instant guilt. I just know I have to really cherish my time with him and my other boys. I cant wait for the feeling to go away, though.xx
@mummymir, I definitely know how you feel I’d go from feeling so so happy to really down and wondering wether I’d make the right decision it was a crazy rollercoaster I was still really emotional from having my son and then all the Pregnacy hormones on top definitely didn’t help but honestly don’t worry I know it’s easier said than done but once baby is here all that guilt will vanish instantly xx
@chelsea2018 thank you hun, horrible feeling but made me feel better knowing it wasnt just me xx
I have 12 months between 2 of mine and I found their age gap a lot easier than my first born and 2nd (3yrs almost) my middle 2 are almost like twins with their size etc and do almost everything together it’s lovely. Everyone told me it would be really hard but I find it absolutely fine! X
They first few months are hard but when they grow its a breeze.
They learn everything together
Potty training , getting changed, talking and writing all together.
My 2 eldest are 11 months apart and everyone stops us thinking they're twins xx
I deffo feel that guilt too! My daughter was 3 months when I found out but now I’ve had my scans etc I feel a lot more better about it all and I’ve decided I’m going to try to take kenza away for a week so she has something (a memory) of her own before baby arrives as my due date is just over a week after her first birthday xxx