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Stephanee

How does everyone feel...

How does everyone feel...


About family members just showing up unannounced at any given time or day? Not even necessarily close family, but extended family or family members that your not close to. Showing up with no warning, no text or call.

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massgirl

Mandy

I. Cannot. Stand. It....this is my on going battle. My mother has no f**king boundaries and will straight up walk through my house when no one is even here.

del_1569172153_unicornprincessx3

Deleted

I don't even like to show up to my own house unannounced 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

No thank you. Let them know they cannot do that. You have two under 2 that’s ridiculous

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

I mean I’m assuming you’re tired of it

mayzeesmom2014

Stephanee

@phoebesmommy yes!!! I hate it!!!

sourpatchkids

Mrs.stkrdknmibalz

No one ever comes over to my house and if they did unannounced I have a camera doorbell where I can see whose here and tell them I’m not home 😂😂😂

mayzeesmom2014

Stephanee

🤣 literally.. I dont answer if I dont have to. But if my dogs are out, then they know someone's home😑😑 or if my kids go to the windows.

sourpatchkids

Mrs.stkrdknmibalz

I’ve been in awkward situations with salesmen seeing my kid through the windows and keep knocking 😒

mayzeesmom2014

Stephanee

@kaylaxxxxx yeppp. Same. Then your stuck and have to answer cause you can't just them think that our kids are running solo in a house with no supervision 🤣

hazelcoco

HazelXoco

Мама сына (2 года)

If your not close to them how can they even communicate with you . If they come I’ll be surprise and be like “Hi watsup “ . Another thing if they come knocking loudly making loud noises I’ll be bother but other then Them coming to visit that’s okay with me .

llcoolkay

Kayla

I hate when people show up unannounced

missheatherbaby

Heather

I wouldn’t like anyone to do that regardless of how close we are. It’s easy to send a text. 🤦🏻‍♀️

mayzeesmom2014

Stephanee

Exactly!! They can call or text any other time.. what's wrong with just giving a heads up.. even a few hours in advance would be better than just showing up.

mayzeesmom2014

Stephanee

The thing is, my husband gets so mad at me because I DONT like it. He doesnt know what I go through though. Even though I stay home, I have a daily schedule and I like my privacy. There are usually toys everywhere, I'm in clothes that I don't wear in public, sometimes my boys are just in diapers, or I'm just not in the mood to deal with anyone that day.

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

He can get mad all he wants. Ask him if he would like random people showing up during his workday expecting to be entertained

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

Your work is at home. Just bc you’re at home doesn’t mean you don’t work or your life can be kick back with no routine or schedule. Maybe the next time someone just stops by, explain to them that your family needs you and that if they want to visit, they need to call ahead of time.

mayzeesmom2014

Stephanee

@phoebesmommy I wish it was that easy.. I'm afraid I'll make em mad and then start a dang family feud over it.. not even kidding...that is what it would turn into.

bunsinmyoven

BunsInMyOven

Lol I just saw you’re in PA. Whereabouts?? My husband’s fam is from Lancaster PA. I’m from CA and it’s a totally diff world. His family stops by his parents all the time. I could not deal.

mayzeesmom2014

Stephanee

20 minutes outside of Pittsburgh 😊

xmoonxkissedx

M H K S

Nope! Nope! Nope!

farmers_wife10

Farmers_Wife10

Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

I may have locked my door, changed my clothes then gone out on our front porch shutting the door behind me and ask them what was going on. If they were just there to visit, I usually say ‘oh I’m sorry. I was just getting everyone ready to leave for an appointment. You should have called first.’ Then told them I had to make sure the boys were still waiting to get dressed, and shut the door in their faces locking it again. If they don’t leave immediately I really do get my boys ready and we head out to a park, playground or something.

mayzeesmom2014

Stephanee

Bahaha.. I have seriously done this type of stuff before. It's what it takes though, to teach people to have respect for other people's privacy/schedules.

speedy19xx

Joslyn

I made this status just today 😂😂

mayzeesmom2014

Stephanee

Hahaha WOW... 🤣 well said👍

earthy_momma

Alyssa

BYE. lol. I wouldn’t answer the door. I never wear pants.

mayzeesmom2014

Stephanee

🤣 this is me as well!! I swear that's why the one neighbor we really have dont speak to us anymore... 🤣🤷‍♀️

mommagoat

Kaylee Brewer

I don’t like it.