Ok I need some advice! I have my 1st godchild's birthday coming up. Her mom asked if I could buy her cake, I told her…
Ok I need some advice! I have my 1st godchild's birthday coming up. Her mom asked if I could buy her cake, I told her yes....not knowing what kind of cake she wanted! For the design it's $100, the child is only making 1. Idk about yall but I have 4 kids and none of them had a birthday party only gatherings at my house with cake and ice cream. I have NEVER spent $100 just on a damn cake. I want to tell her no I'm not paying for it, but I don't want to seem cheap. I just feel that's too damn much for just a cake. I'd rather get her an outfit made for less of that price! What yall think??
Alyssa·
I think you should offer to give her however much you’re comfortable with towards the cake.
Kae··
Мама четверых детей, беременна
That may be a plan too, but I feel they're trying to keep up with everybody now a days with these fancy cakes. I could get her outfit made and buy her clothes and shoes for $100
kammy·
Мама сына (2 года)
is that what she wants? If you have a sams club or walmart you can take them a design and see what they can make and it'll be cheaper
Kae··
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Yes this is what she's asking me to get. And she doesn't want that, she specifically want this one. I just feel that's biggity when I offered to pay for the cake. My aunt makes cakes so that's why I agreed on doing it bc I know she wasnt going to charge that much
Alyssa·
People don’t realize that tiered cakes are for feeding HUGE groups of people. Maybe let her know that as well.
Kae··
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Thank you for that bc I didn't know that! That cake will go to waste girl. Her daddy drives a BMW why he can't buy it🙄
MassMomma16·
A lot of that will be wasted I’m sure. That’s for a pretty big crowd. Is such a big cake necessary??
Kae··
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Exactly!! And I know alot of ppl wont be there
Kae·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
And a smash cake is included so basically she will have her own cake!
scream.queen·
Wow are they really that expensive where you guys live? We get tiered cakes for the boy's parties here and it's only $65.
Kae··
Мама четверых детей, беременна
That's what I'm thinking too man I just don't like telling ppl no but shit if she know that many ppl going she can handle that & let me pay for something cheaper like her outfit or something. I cant tell her what to do for her kids bday but as of me I would never ask anyone to pay that much for a cake godparent or not
scream.queen··
Has she even looked into the cakes and how many they will feed?? I mean they tell you write on them. That's overly excessive! I wouldn't ask anyone to pay for a cake that expensive!
Kae··
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Exactly!!!