Kae
gion.92
Kae·Мама четверых детей, беременна
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Ok I need some advice! I have my 1st godchild's birthday coming up. Her mom asked if I could buy her cake, I told her yes....not knowing what kind of cake she wanted! For the design it's $100, the child is only making 1. Idk about yall but I have 4 kids and none of them had a birthday party only gatherings at my house with cake and ice cream. I have NEVER spent $100 just on a damn cake. I want to tell her no I'm not paying for it, but I don't want to seem cheap. I just feel that's too damn much for just a cake. I'd rather get her an outfit made for less of that price! What yall think??

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scream.queen
scream.queen·Мама двоих (7 лет, 8 лет)

Wow are they really that expensive where you guys live? We get tiered cakes for the boy's parties here and it's only $65.

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gion.92
Kae·Мама четверых детей, беременна

That's what I'm thinking too man I just don't like telling ppl no but shit if she know that many ppl going she can handle that & let me pay for something cheaper like her outfit or something. I cant tell her what to do for her kids bday but as of me I would never ask anyone to pay that much for a cake godparent or not

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scream.queen
scream.queen·Мама двоих (7 лет, 8 лет)

@gion.92, Has she even looked into the cakes and how many they will feed?? I mean they tell you write on them. That's overly excessive! I wouldn't ask anyone to pay for a cake that expensive!

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gion.92
Kae·Мама четверых детей, беременна

Exactly!!!

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gion.92
Kae·Мама четверых детей, беременна

And a smash cake is included so basically she will have her own cake!

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massmomma16
MassMomma16·Мама дочки (2 года)

A lot of that will be wasted I’m sure. That’s for a pretty big crowd. Is such a big cake necessary??

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gion.92
Kae·Мама четверых детей, беременна

Exactly!! And I know alot of ppl wont be there

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earthy_momma
Alyssa·Мама дочки (1 год)

People don’t realize that tiered cakes are for feeding HUGE groups of people. Maybe let her know that as well.

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gion.92
Kae·Мама четверых детей, беременна

Thank you for that bc I didn't know that! That cake will go to waste girl. Her daddy drives a BMW why he can't buy it🙄

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kambam
kammy·Мама сына (2 года)

is that what she wants? If you have a sams club or walmart you can take them a design and see what they can make and it'll be cheaper

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gion.92
Kae·Мама четверых детей, беременна

Yes this is what she's asking me to get. And she doesn't want that, she specifically want this one. I just feel that's biggity when I offered to pay for the cake. My aunt makes cakes so that's why I agreed on doing it bc I know she wasnt going to charge that much

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earthy_momma
Alyssa·Мама дочки (1 год)

I think you should offer to give her however much you’re comfortable with towards the cake.

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gion.92
Kae·Мама четверых детей, беременна

That may be a plan too, but I feel they're trying to keep up with everybody now a days with these fancy cakes. I could get her outfit made and buy her clothes and shoes for $100

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