Okay so I was granted 6 months of a restraining order because he was abusive to me in front of our…
Okay so I was granted 6 months of a restraining order because he was abusive to me in front of our child. but the judge told him that if legitimize her he can get his rights! So he just called me saying he is trying to get joint custody of her! I have her one week he has her one week then we split holidays!!! That papers will be served! Is it able to get joint custody of her ?
mamabear2plus2·
If you have a restraining order why is he calling you?
Lovely Me·
Мама дочки (2 года)
Exactly!!
Lovely Me·
Мама дочки (2 года)
He sent me a text on Mother’s Day and not suppose to have any contact with me
Penelope ··
Report it, get him in trouble.
💙 Autumn 💙··
You need to let the courts know he's in violation of the restraining order. He might be able to file for custody but it sounds like it would be a pretty easy fight if you guys have a restraining order in place over him being violent as it is. Courts are more likely to side with the mother and he's done enough for a judge to think he isn't safe so that'll help you as well.
Lovely Me·
Мама дочки (2 года)
How do I report it ?
Penelope ··
Go down to the police station and file a report.
💙 Autumn 💙··
☝☝I think you can do it at the courthouse too. You really need to though. My sister brought up that her ex violated his by texting her during a custody battle and the judge wasn't happy about her not reporting it
Shay·
Report it asap! Court or Police station.
Jana ·
Its likely he will not get the joint custody he wants. If he gets 50/50 custody he doesn't have to pay child support so a lot of dads try this and it rarely ever works. Great dads hardly get weekends, so I can't see why a judge would give a violent person 50/50.
Deleted··
We have 50/50 custody of my step son and my husband still has to pay. It all goes off what you make.
Jana ··
@s.keene2016 I forget it's like that if one makes more. I have a few friends going through it and they just want to pay less or nothing at all. I know some fathers do deserve that and actually want their kids around. But some sadly do not